October 2018
Adult Ed Page 2 Calendar Page 10 Celebrations Page 9
Children’s Min Page 3 Commitment Page 5 Fellowship Page 7
Finance Page 9 Outreach Page 8 Small Groups Page 8
Preschool Page 4 Youth Page 6
Dear Friends,
For the church, the fall season marks the beginning of a new church year. It is in September and October that we
see ministries fire up again a�er, in some cases, taking a bit of a break during the summer months. It is in the fall that
the staff sneaks away for a few days for a planning retreat. It provides us an opportunity that we don’t o�en have to
look back on the previous year of ministry and then look ahead at what we see on the horizon.
As we met this year, we recognized that much has changed for us since last
year. It was only a year ago that we had just celebrated the 50th anniversary of
Triangle Presbyterian Church and now a year later we are learning what it is to
become Triangle Grace Church. Just last year we were s-ll in the throws of
seeking to be dismissed from the PCUSA and today we are in ECO and in just a few
weeks we’ll send our first vo-ng representa-ves to the mee-ng of our new
presbytery. A year ago we were seeking to experience a sense of closure, today
we are moving into the bright present and future God has in store for us.
I believe it is an exci-ng -me to be counted as a covenant partner in this part
of the body of Christ. As I was thinking about these transi-ons and new beginnings and what they will mean for us, I
was drawn to the thought that God’s desire for us is to become the best “us” that we can be. We have something
special…something unique to offer to the kingdom of God and our community. God is giving us opportuni-es to share
his love and grace in our own back yard and then beyond and we don’t want to miss a single occasion to do so.
Over the last several years, we have engaged in a concentrated outreach effort that we have called, “The
Church Has Le� the Building.” When we are gathered and sent on October 7th through that event we will simply be
doing in a more concentrated way much of what we ordinarily do throughout the year. Because that is the case, we
should not look at this single day event as something we do and then wait un-l next year to do again, rather we
should use it as a springboard for ongoing significant ministries throughout the year. As good stewards of the gi�s
that God has brought to Triangle Grace, and we have an enormously gi�ed congrega-on, we reach out with those
gi�s in the love of Jesus to those who may need to hear that God loved them enough to send His Son to redeem
them.
This is the very idea that we are trying to promote as we think about stewardship. It is not something we do once
a year. Stewardship has to do with how we use the gi�s God has given us every moment of every day throughout the
year. Whether filling out our es-mate of giving cards, or pu:ng money in the offering plate, or gleaning sweet
potatoes, or volunteering at Faye;eville Street School, or teaching Sunday School, or feeding homeless people
through Open Table, we are sharing the gi�s that God has entrusted to us. Whenever we share our gi�s, we are
coming closer to being the best “us” that we can be.
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JOIN AN ADULT EDUCATION CLASS!
On Sundays at 10:00 AM there are a variety of classes open to anyone who is interested.
Bible Class: John's Gospel: Wisdom from Ephesus
Facilitator: Various Facilitators, Loca�on: Fellowship A
Journey with author, songwriter, and teacher Michael Card through the ancient site of Ephesus
where the beloved apostle wrote what you know as, "The Gospel of John."
Temples. Libraries. Homes. City centers. They all help us get a be;er picture of the people John
pastored in Ephesus and the atmosphere out of which he penned his "unique gospel", as Card likes
to call it. Each of the 8 sessions in this study will begin with a short video featuring Michael Card and
will con-nue with discussion facilitated by various members of the class.
Adult E
duca
tion
HomeBuilders: The Book of Colossians
Facilitator: Aaron Messer Loca�on: Room 100
We will study and discuss one of the most important le;ers ever wri;en. Penned by Paul from behind prison
walls, Colossians beau-fully lays out the supremacy and sufficiency of Jesus Christ. This God-inspired le;er to a
church instructs us that what we think about Jesus ma;ers. Our percep-on of Him shapes us—what we say, how
SALT
Facilitator: Donna Frank, Loca�on: Room 101
The SALT Class (Single Adults) is designed to help single adults apply biblical truths in all their rela�onships. This
class uses a variety of resources including videos and group discussion.
Fellowship: The Goodness of God
Facilitator: Jeannie Phelps, Loca�on: Fellowship Hall B
The fellowship class will conclude our study on "The Goodness of God" a study wri;en by Jack Hayford, founding
pastor of Church on the Way in Van Nuys California and acclaimed Chris-an author. The next study will be Titus:
Good Doctrine and Godly Living in which we will examine a le;er from Paul to Titus, his close friend and protégé.
At the -me, Titus was leading a troubled church on the Island of Crete. This study will last about 6 weeks.
Bible Study
The Book of Luke
Wednesday Nights at 6:00PM (except Ministry Team Night)
Remarkable for its rich detail, precise language, and me�culous research, the Gospel of Luke contains insights into the
life and ministry of Jesus that only a master historian could have uncovered. Dive into this book and feel the
amazement of the people in Luke’s gospel as they encountered firsthand the Messiah of Israel.
Join Pastor Ray in room 206 as together we make our way through the Gospel of Luke. We are picking up where we
le� off with chapter 17. Even if you haven't been in this Bible study before we would love to have you join us now as
we delve into what has been called the Gospel of Amazement.
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Child
ren’s M
inistr
y Here’s what’s happening in Children’s Ministries
1) Did you know? Wise paren-ng perspec-ve and sugges-ons are just a click away in your
email. You may sign up to receive paren-ng -ps by email. Nancy sends out parent -ps
from the Na-onal Ins-tute of Biblical Paren-ng on a regular basis. If you are interested
and have not previously received these -ps, please email Nancy at
[email protected] or go on their website and sign up yourself at
www.biblicalparen-ng.org.
2) Join us for the Children’s team dreaming and vision cas-ng mee-ng at 7 pm on October
3rd, following a delicious and reasonably priced dinner, prepared by Diane Cobb and her
team of sous chefs! We have some new Saturday special interest camps on the horizon in
2019 and we need your input. Interested in basketball and/or art?
3) Did you know that our Sunday Clubs offering from each kids’ class will support meals for
underserved families and kids at Faye;eville Elementary School, our partner community
school. We are consul-ng the FSES staff about collec-ng specific food items to send home
with those families over holiday breaks when kids are not ge:ng regular meals! Stay
tuned for more informa-on in the monthly newsle;er and weekly Tidings.
Join us for Children's Ministries church wide events
Put December 2 at 5:00PM on your calendar for an evening of
fellowship, food and entertainment with our Varsity Fellowship
Dinner and Kids Clubs musical. Your generous dona-ons for
dinner help our Senior High students a;end the Fun In The Son
(FITS) camp in July 2019.
We began our fall session of Wednesday Kids’ Clubs September
26th with 55 kids registered. We’re learning a Christmas musical
called, “Carol and the Belles” a play which reminds us about how
God can change our plans to His plans in some-mes surprising ways.
2019 VBS
June 17-19, Monday through Wednesday, 6:00-8:00PM
Make sure you mark your calendar for summer 2019. Want to get involved? Contact Children’s team chair,
Mironda Divers at [email protected] or Nancy in the office at [email protected] !
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Some ways to help TGP!
You can link your Harris Teeter
VIC card to our school (#2948)
Clip and save education BOX TOP$
and bring them to TGP
Purchase GoPlaySave coupon books (Book or on-line app),
on sale through October 12
$25—Durham $30—Raleigh
Triangle Grace Preschool
7th Annual
Holiday Bazaar and Cra= Fair
Saturday, November 3, 2018
10:00AM—2:00PM
5001 Tudor Place—Durham, NC 27713
Family Life Center
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Com
mitm
ent
On Sunday, October 14, all the Adult Sunday School classes
will have the opportunity to gather in the FLC for snacks,
fellowship and opportuni-es to learn about the 2019 budget.
There will be an opportunity to hear some stewardship stories and
to ask ques-ons you may have about the 2019 budget. Quarterbacks will receive their
footballs during the morning. Sunday Clubs and Middle School will go on as normal. Come,
learn and enjoy fellowship and some tasty treats.
COMPLETE THE PASS!
As in the past, the congrega-on is divided up into geographic/neighborhood teams. Each
football has a quarterback that oversees its journey. Each football contains a proposed
budget and es-mate of giving cards for each family. You have 3 weeks to move the football
from home to home, just make sure someone gets it back to TGC on November 4. Don’t
fumble by leaving it at someone’s house without them knowing it. That does not work! If
you have trouble passing, contact your QB or Nikki in the church office.
SOUPER BOWL SUNDAY!
SOUP POTLUCK DINNER
November 4 @ 5:00pm
On Sunday, November 4 all footballs (and es-mate of
giving cards) will be collected during worship. That evening we will gather at our annual TGC Souper
Bowl dinner to celebrate all those “completed passes”. This is a great -me to show off your crea-ve
cooking skills! Bring your favorite soup or chili or bread to share with your TGC family members who
will gladly sample your delicious crea-ons! You can sign up on our website to let us know you’re
coming and what you plan to bring.
FLU SHOT CLINIC
TGC will be offering this on Sunday, October 21 from 10:30AM-12:00 Noon in the FLC for anyone
14 and older. Flu shots are free for BCBS NC, Medicare, NC State plans, Tricare & BCBS Federal
(Triangle Rx will be happy to process your insurance plan). Cash price is $39.99. Pneumonia &
Shingles vaccines can also be given, but you must contact Alice at Triangle Pharmacy beforehand
(919-544-1711). Contact Nikki in the church office with any ques-ons.
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You
th M
inistr
y Varsity High School
Youth
High Schoolers meet up every Sunday night from
6:15-8:00PM at TPC. We’d love for you to come
and join in! If you’re looking to learn some
more—stop by our high school Bible study on
Wednesday nights from 6:30-7:30 PM at the
church.
MLY— Major League Youth
Middle Schoolers hang out every Sunday
night from 3:45-5:30PM at TPC. We
always have a blast—come join us!
Contact Pastor Jeff for more
info on youth activities.
October 33 3 6:00-8:00PM Ministry Team Dinner & MeeKng
7 The Church Has Le= the Building—
Varsity Lunch
10 6:30-7:30PM Varsity Bible Study
14 12:45-1:30PM Varsity HaiK Mission Intro Mtg
3:45-5:30PM MLY
6:15-8:00PM Varsity
11 17 6:30-7:30PM Varsity Bible Study
21 3:45-5:30PM MLY
6:15-8:00PM Varsity
24 6:30-7:30PM Varsity Bible Study
28 1:30-3:30PM MLY Pumpkin Smashin Messy Day
6:00-8:45PM Varsity Costume Party
“ STADIUM LIGHTS”
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Ministry Team
Night Dinner
October 3 at 6:00PM
If you don’t come out for Ministry Team Night…..WHY?
You get a delicious home cooked meal, with dessert,
from 6:00-6:45PM at a very low cost ($6/middle school &
up, $2 children with a $20 family cap). This month is
Chicken & Rice Casserole, Green Beans, hot dogs, salad
bar, rolls and dessert. From 7:00-8:00PM, you can
par-cipate in one of our Ministry Teams (with childcare
provided). We are all called to use our talents in service
to God and par-cipa-ng in one of our Ministry Teams is a
great way to do this. There is a team that will definitely
fit your skills and talents.
Fello
wsh
ip
Just Older Youth—Thursday, October 11 at 11:30AM
Come out and have lunch with those of us who are… “Just Older Youth” or who enjoy having lunch
with our older members and friends. We normally meet the 2nd Thursday of the month at the
Golden Corral on Hwy 55 at 11:30AM. It’s a wonderful -me of great food and fellowship topped off
with a short devo-on led by one of the Pastors.
PAT H WAYS G R O U P : O c t o b e r Ev e n t s !
‘Pathways: a Chris-an journey through life.’ Pathways is a place where anyone is welcome.
Con-nue to look for specific informa-on in the newsle;er and bulle-n.
10/8 Volleyball at 6:30PM in the FLC
10/12 Game night star-ng at 7 pm - watch email for host loca-on
10/22 Volleyball at 6:30PM in the FLC
10/28 Sunday brunch following late service @12:45pm– watch email
If there are any ques-ons or you would like to be added to the Pathways email, please contact
Kelley Crabtree [email protected] or call the church office at 919-544-2872.
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Are You Signed Up?? Don’t forget to wear your new T-shirts!!!
Sunday, October 7—Single Worship at 9:30AM
Join us for our 4th Annual Church Has Le� the Building. There will be opportuni-es for everyone to
get involved. A�er a single worship service some will head to different places to serve (Carolina
Reserve of Durham, Faye;eville Street Elementary, Diaper Bank, gleaning sweet potatoes) and
others will stay at TGC (wri-ng notes, packaging meals, praying, just to name a few more).
Sm
all Gro
ups
Caregiver Support Group
The Caregiver Support Group will meet in Room 101 at 3:00pm. We will meet on the 1st and
3rd Sundays. We will be studying “Necessary Conversa-ons: Between Families and Their Aging
Parents” (2nd edi-on) by Gerald and Marlene Kaufman. This small group discusses and shares
ways to meet the needs of our older loved ones, with special focus on how to care for parents
while providing understanding, support, and fellowship. If you would like more informa-on,
contact Diane Albert at [email protected] or 919-949-1375.
October 7 5: Conversa-ons about Finances
October 21 6: Where to Live
Outr
each
Please join us Sunday, November 4 for a 10:00AM Single Service as we are
officially welcomed into the ECO Family. We will have special guest, Synod
Execu-ve, Rev. Dr. Dana Allin in the pulpit and he will be joining during a
fellowship -me with refreshments to answer ques-ons in the Family Life Center.
The Church is Leaving the Building Early!
Yes, that’s right. We are kick starting our annual community event with a Habitat for Humanity Repairs project on
Saturday, October 6. If you can’t make Sunday’s activities or just want to partner with Durham Habitat and fellow TGC’ers to help a local homeowner make some needed repairs to their home, we can use your hands on
Saturday at 3014 Firth Road. We will need approximately 5 volunteers for the morning and 5 in the afternoon. Sign up on our website today!
Women’s Fellowship Group! Our women’s fellowship group meets in Room 205 on Thursday’s from 12-2PM, and all women of all ages are invited to attend. Join us as we study Max Lucado’s “Anxious for Nothing”, and please invite any friends and neighbors who would enjoy this great opportunity to fellowship, study Scripture and pray with sisters in Christ. Feel free to bring your lunch!
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Finan
ce
Bir
thday
s Anniv
ersa
ries
1 Dan & Jackie MacDogall
5 Tyler & Megan Dice
Steve & Kathy Tapp
6 Dino & Carolyn Jerkovich
Adam & Amy White
8 Geoff & Kim Lloyd
10 Sco; & Julie Bales
11 Benny & Dawn Hutchins
Anton & Rosalind Jerkovich
12 Bill & Valerie Robbins
13 Mike & Jenn Kirschner
16 Tim & Susanne Anderson
17 Paul & Robyn Sipe
20 Chad & Renee Wesson
24 John & Be;y Watson
2 Chad Wesson
3 Dawn MacElroy
Abby Wesson
4 Juliellen Simpson-Vos
5 Colleen Sco;
6 Luke Roeber
7 Thomas Borasky
8 Tim Anderson
9 Ellen Roeber
Jay Stobbs
11 Audrey Benne;
Jean Watkins
12 Meredith Riedel
14 Sherene Min
Jessica Strowd
24 Laurin Jackson
Dino Jerkovich
Lori Slack
27 Peggy Anglin
Jesse Holton
28 Amanda Wojoski
29 Emily Ksor
Bruce McAlister
Linda Sheer
31 Brenda Ingram
Dawn Watkins
15 Dan MacDougall
Will McAndrew
16 Dennis Steil
Amy White
17 Josie Valgus
18 Becki Green
Betsy Huber
Stan Newbold
John Simmons
19 Steve McBrite
22 Ryan Thurman
23 Connor Cole
Amie Palmer
Peggy Pulley
August Budget Report
Pledges Budget Contribu-ons Expenses Net Gain/Loss
$84,750 $98,334 $90,236 $86,319 +$3,917
Year to Date
Pledges Budget Contribu-ons Expenses Net Gain/Loss
$678,001 $786,710 $678,150 $714,254 -($36,104)
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