Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

Thirty Second Sunday in Ordinary Time — November 6, 2016

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Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

*ELECTION DAY —NOVEMBER 8

*YOU ARE INVITED to a FELLOWSHIP BREAKFAST NEXT Sunday—see p. 3

All Souls 2016

Remembering Our Loved Ones

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 pm

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill: Jeff Harms, Harold Bottino, Felix Matos,

Patrick O’Brien, Sam Gazzola

Let us remember those who have recently died: Pauline Kelly, Anthony Pisano, Barbara Pisano

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of October 30, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY* TOTAL

$8,408 $3,698 $12,106

* Please note that our ParishPay total remains the same but has been divided into five weeks for October 2016.

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread and wine for the week of

November 6, 2016 is offered

in celebration of the

Wedding of

David Hellriegel & Erica Canlas

as requested by Mark & Diane Hellriegel.

Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who has loved us and given us everlasting encouragement and good hope through his grace, encourage your hearts and strengthen them in every good deed and word.” 2 THESSALONIANS 2: 16-17

There are two important lessons here. First, we are called to be generous with our encouragement and hope. As God shows us mercy, we must be merciful to others. Second, joy is contagious! The joy we receive from doing good works not only strengthens us, it encourages others as well.

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Dir. of Religious Education ……..Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator ………...Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ……………………….Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director …………………...Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager …………………. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………...Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…………..Mrs. Colette Vail Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

REMEMBER TO VOTE! Tuesday,

November 8

November 5, 2016 Philip McGough

November 6, 2016 People of the Parish Gaetano Angione Anthony Smith Gaetano Angione Marie Roeltgen

November 7, 2016 All our beloved deceased Daniel O’Grady

November 8, 2016 Election Day Mary Glynn All our beloved deceased

November 9, 2016 All our beloved deceased Margaret & Patrick Mc Niff

November 10, 2016 John McKeon All our beloved deceased

November 11, 2016 Veterans Day All our beloved deceased Catherine Dreitlein (Anniversary Remembrance)

November 12, 2016 Anna & Terry Levy Mary & William Sweeney

November 13, 2016 People of the Parish Irene Esposito Hugh J. Flanagan Eamon G. McCarthy 10th Anniversary Remembrance Anthony Navarra

EARLY BULLETIN DEADLINES

Announcements for the Nov. 20 bulletin—due by Friday, Nov. 11

Nov. 27 bulletin—due by Tuesday, Nov. 15 Please send them to hellriegeld@sjcnj.org

NO LATER than the listed deadlines. Thank you!

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THIRTY SECOND SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ NOVEMBER 6, 2016

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK Since an election is looming, as we have all been sufficiently reminded by now, I thought I would

share with you one of my favorite political stories. It involves one of the most colorful figures in our history. Theodore Roosevelt campaigned with a zest few office seekers ever equaled and none surpassed. Each New Year’s Day of his presidency he would invite the public to drop by the White House for a handshake. In 1907’s session he greeted 8,150 people, at a rate of 50 a minute, a world’s record. It was not his only skill for pleasing voters. A group of Kansas farmers once came to Roosevelt’s Oyster Bay home for an arranged visit. The dressed-down president greeted them with his famous smile and hearty voice: “I’m dee-lighted to see you, but I’m very busy putting in my hay now. Come down to the barn and we’ll talk things over while I work.” When they got there, there was no hay on the ground. So the president shouted to his hired man: “James! Where’s the hay?” James stuck his head out of the loft and replied: “I’m sorry, sir, but I just ain’t had time to throw it back since you forked it up for yesterday’s delegation.” In life we often find it helpful and even necessary to please people. But there is only one before whom we stand in direct immediacy in all our thoughts and actions. That is the one Psalm 139 speaks of when it says:

Where can I go from your spirit? From your presence where can I flee?

I hope that, when we go to the polls this Tuesday, we will have regard for the God-given values we have been called to hold, and will make our choices in light of well-formed consciences. As is always the case in presidential elections, many important issues are at stake, and our lives will change depending on how they are settled.

Msgr. David Hubba

A THANK YOU FROM CHRISTIANS OF THE HOLY LAND

I am very grateful that so many of you came to meet us after Mass. Your community and clergy made us feel so very welcomed and appreciated. Many of you expressed kind and sincere words of gratitude and praise; your kindness to our cause is very humbling. We appreciate all your prayers and "prayers in action" demonstrated through your generosity in purchasing the olive wood religious articles that were available. Thank you. Many Christian Palestinian will soon be hard at work to replenish what you've purchased and more. This in turn creates a virtuous cycle of simple commerce, all because you chose to participate. One of the major problems we face as Christian Palestinians is the lack of awareness about us. I pray that we continue to leave a positive impression on you regarding our community. I urge you to continue your prayers for our shared cause, namely safeguarding our Christian Holy Land; it's people and parishes. Merry Christmas in advance. Peace,

Rami Qumsieh, KHS

“YEAR OF MERCY” SERIES JOIN US FOR

TWO SPECIAL PRESENTATIONS AT SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH

1. SAINT AUGUSTINE: Mercy in the Fathers of the Church —NOVEMBER 15 Msgr. David Hubba with Ana

Posadas will offer a presentation on Saint Augustine (“The Preacher of Mercy”) as we continue our Year of Mercy series. The beautiful witness of the Church’s greatest early saints and their writings abundantly confirm the Scriptural examples of God’s mercy. Pope Francis believes that we can learn to be more merciful through these saints’ experiences of mercy. The talk will take place on Tuesday, November 15 at 9:15 am in the Jackson Room (in the lower church). There is NO COST and everyone is welcome!

2. CORPORAL AND SPIRITUAL WORKS OF MERCY —NOVEMBER 19 Members of the Saint Joseph Social Concerns Committee will be presenting another topic of the Year of Mercy series. "The Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy" will be presented in conjunction with the Legion of Mary's Third Saturday Prayer which will be held on Saturday, November 19 after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary's Chapel. There is NO COST and all are welcome!

FIRST ANNUAL FELLOWSHIP BREAKFAST —NOVEMBER 13

Hosted by Saint Joseph Religious Education Families Open to all parishioners at NO COST. Please join us to catch up with friends

and welcome new families! Sunday, November 13, 2016

following 10:30 Mass in the Lower School Gym (305 Elm Street, Oradell)

Assorted juices, coffee, tea, bagel bar, donuts & fresh fruit salad will be served

Please RSVP at kverrier@msn.com to let us know the number of guests who will be attending.

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SHAWL MINISTRY MEETING —NOVEMBER 8

Saint Joseph’s Shawl Ministry will meet on Tuesday, November 8 from 2:00-4:00 pm in the Parish Life Center on Grove Street. All knitters & crocheters are welcome to join us in making shawls…or bring your current yarn project and spend a relaxing afternoon with us. Our ministry has shawls available for those experiencing illness, confinement, bereavement, or other situation. For further information, please contact Barbara Piersa at 201-261-0298 or Pat DeNicolo at 201-261-4323.

CUT THIS OUT TO USE WHEN YOU GO GROCERY SHOPPING

FOOD DRIVE AT SAINT JOSEPH

—NOVEMBER 19-20

“Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed you, or thirsty, and give You drink? … Truly, I say

to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my breth-ren, you did it to Me.” Matt. 25: 37, 40

Our traditional Thanksgiving Food Drive will take place in two weeks. Your generous donations will bless those in need of the Food Pantries at the Church of the Ascension in New Milford and our Brother/Sister Parish of St. Joseph in Jersey City.

If you prefer, you may make a monetary donation. Please make your check payable to “Saint Joseph Church” and mark the

envelope “Food Drive.”

The following is a list of items often requested. Please make sure that the food is NOT OUTDATED. Thank you for using your own grocery bags!

Baby Food/Formula Macaroni & Cheese Baked Beans/ Mayo/Mustard/Ketchup Pork & Beans Meat/Fish (Canned) (Dried or Canned) Beef Stew (Canned) Beans Milk (Powdered or Canned) Bisquick/Pancake Mix Pasta/Pasta Sauce /Syrup Peanut Butter & Jelly Cake Mix/Frosting Potatoes Cereal (Canned or Instant) Coffee/Tea Rice Cranberry Sauce Salad Dressing Fruit (Canned) Soup (Canned) Fruit Juice Stuffing Mix Gravy Sugar/Salt/Pepper/Etc. Jello/Pudding Vegetables (Canned) Deodorant Shampoo Dishwashing Liquid Shaving Cream Garbage Bags Soap Laundry Detergent Toilet Paper Napkins/Paper Towels Toothpaste

*Please bring your donations to the Saint Joseph Rectory Garage, before or after any of the Masses the weekend of Nov. 19-20.

TURKEYS may be dropped off at that time, or on Monday morning, November 21, before 9:30 am .

SOCIAL CONCERNS MEETING —NOVEMBER 10

“Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed you, or thirsty, and give You drink? … Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of

these my brethren, you did it to Me.” Matt. 25: 37, 40

The Saint Joseph Parish Social Concerns Committee will hold its monthly meeting on Thursday, November 10 at 7:30 pm in the Saint Joseph lower school library (305 Elm St., Oradell). You are cordially invited to attend to see how you can help make a positive difference in our parish and our community.

Naspo

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VETERANS DAY —NOVEMBER 11

Heavenly Father, on this day, help us remember those who gave of themselves to keep us safe and secure.

Enkindle in our consciences a desire to serve those who served their country selflessly. Give us the grace to aid those who have given aid and protection to us and others both here and overseas. Let us never forget the causes for which they fought or the bravery they showed on the battlefield. May we be always be mindful of those who paid the price for our freedom, just as your Son gave his life to free us from the bondage of sin. Amen.

SALUTING TWO VETERANS AND THEIR SERVICE TO OTHER VETS

Joe Potenzano, a parishioner of Our Lady of Visitation in Paramus, has been a member of the Father Washington Chapter of the Catholic War Veterans since 2005. He has visited our parish on numerous occasions on

behalf of our vets and has always been impressed with our parishioners’ generosity and support. He kindly offered to share his experiences with us and give us some insight into the CWV. Joe served in the U.S. Army during the Korean Conflict (from 1949-1952) attaining the rank of Corporal. After his discharge, he worked as a draftsman and went back to school graduating from FDU in 1964 with a degree in mechanical engineering. He worked one year at the Navy Yard in Philadelphia and then at Kellogg, an industrial plant. When he took a job at the Picatinny Arsenal in Dover, he was able to use his Army training. He worked in the rocket propulsion lab designing miniature rockets for artillery. Joe worked over a dozen years as an aerospace and then artillery systems engineer. He retired from Dover in 1988 and started his own firm as a consulting engineer to the Army. He wrote two books on artillery published by the Army. Joe, a single, very young 86-year-old, has welcomed his involvement in the CWV, which has not precluded his participation in other activities he also enjoys, like singing in the OLV choir (which he’s done for 39 years). Serving as Third Vice-President of our CWV chapter, Joe cites the common experience veterans share—”We were part of it and we can recognize what these men and women did”—and acknowledges the great satisfaction he receives in helping our veterans and their families

Kurt Strobach is a longtime parishioner of Saint Joseph and the Commander of the Fr. Washington Chapter of the CWV. Kurt served in the U.S. army during the Viet Nam War. Drafted in 1969, he served as a squad leader and a platoon leader and became head

clerk of his Company. In September 1970 he was sent to Viet Nam along with 200 other new recruits. When their plane touched down, they could see bright flashes of light and black smoke and feel the vibrations of explosions not far off. They had to crawl on the hot tarmac carrying their heavy duffel bags along with them. Kurt served as the head clerk in a Military Police Combat Unit. Because there was a massive downsizing of troops at that time, Kurt’s unit was involved in calling in air strikes and making long-range patrols with the infantry. He quietly recalled some terrifying experiences and spoke of sights, sounds and smells that remain in his memory. (continued above)

VETERANS DAY CELEBRATION AT SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL

—NOVEMBER 10 Saint Joseph School is honoring Veterans on Thursday, November 10 at 9:00 am in the lower school Cafeteria (305 Elm Street, Oradell). The SJS PTO will be hosting a continental breakfast and program for our military he-roes. If you served in the U.S. Military and would like to attend our celebration, please let us know by November 7. You should call our school secretary at 201-261-2388 and let her know you will be attending and in what branch of the military you served. On the day of the celebration, our veterans should plan to arrive a few minutes early as the program will begin promptly at 9:00 am with an opening prayer.

After Viet Nam, Kurt spent four years in the Army Reserve. He found support from other veterans as they each struggled to return to civilian life. Kurt was employed as a data analyst for a bank and then returned to college while also working as a freelance artist. He worked in risk analysis and loss control at A.I.G. and then started his own company KES Signs Systems (designing signage for office buildings). He met his wife Pat in 1978 and together they have two daughters and two grandsons. In 1987 Kurt’s military service again came to the forefront of his life when he joined the Air National Guard and went on several assignments to Iraq, Kuwait and Bahrain. Like Joe, Kurt is steadfast in his commitment to serving his fellow veterans who unselfishly answered the call to serve our country. As President Reagan said of the Catholic War Veterans in 1984, “There have never been any sunshine soldiers or summer patriots in your ranks, and I have the deepest admiration for your commitment to serve both God and country.” If you are a Catholic man or woman who is serving, or has served, in the U.S. Military and would like to learn more about the Catholic War Veterans, please feel free to contact Kurt at 201-741-9515 or at kurtes0220@gmail —Diane Hellriegel

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FANTASTIC FALL CRAFT SHOW —NOVEMBER 13

Unique Finds at Amazing Prices

Paramus Catholic High School Parents Association presents their Fall Craft Show with 130 quality crafters on Sunday, November 13 from 10:00 am to 5:00 pm. Admission is $3.00 and children 10 and under are FREE. (No strollers or pets allowed.) The show features quality crafters and artisans with woodwork, florals, soft sculpture, jewelry, photography, stained glass, apparel, children’s items, fiber, folk art, holiday items, and more! Paramus Catholic High School is located at 425 Paramus Road, Paramus, NJ.

DONATE YOUR OLD EYEGLASSES Help the Knights of Columbus give the gift of sight to those in need by donating your old prescription

eyeglasses and sunglasses and your over-the-counter reading glasses. A collection box will be at the back of both the upper and lower churches during the month of November. (Glasses with broken frames are also accepted.)

YOUTH MINISTRY UPDATE There is Youth Group tonight, Sunday, November 6! Come and meet up with us. Grades 7-8 meet from 6:00 – 8:00 pm; grades 9-12 meet from 7:00 – 9:00 pm. If you have any questions about Youth Group, please feel free to contact Donna at cirinod@sjcnj.org or call her at 201-362-8783.

Please keep our beloved deceased in your prayers during the month of November. George L. Alexis, Vincenzo Alise, Marie Amoroso, Gaetano Angione, Matthew Armistead, Jurgen Beerfeltz, Edward Bodner, Claire A. Browning, Marie Byrne,

Antonia Caldara, Kevin Cameron, Rose J. Capuano, Marco Caselli, Vera G. Colonna, William J. Coogan, John Delaney, John P. Della Torre, Perry Di Giovanni, Ruth D’Souza, Jane Emanuel, Irene Mary Esposito, Rita A. Falk, Margaret Rose Finocchiaro, Phyllis Follety, Robert T. Frye, Joseph Gaetano, Fred Galea, Josephine Gebbia, Mary K. Glynn, John Granito, Edward Greene, William J. Heina, Joseph K. Hill, James Patrick Holland, Marilyn Kahill, Mary Kam, John J. Keefe, Irene Koth, Letitia La Forgia, Mary A. Larotonda, Carl Lieberman, Anthony Macri, Alice Madorran, Florida Mallet, Frank J. Marchesano, Sr., Nicholas Marzigliano, Lilian McCarthy, Nora McNichol, Richard Mola, Janet Mulcahy, Martin Naughton, Graham O’Brien, Patrick A. O’Donoghue, Daniel C. O’Grady, Alfred O’Toole, Emil A. Pellegrino, William Petrie, Eufronio Pongos, Paul Alan Prior, Lily M. Psztur, Rose Ronda, Leonarda Santos, Peter Sapunarich, Lisa Ann Saracino, Caroline M. Seco, Raymond Slattery, Joseph Salvatore Tesoriero, Rose P. Vaz, John Verrier, Rose Viscardi, Gertrude Walker, Michael John Walsh, Michael Weber, Kevin Wright, Marilyn Youakim, Dorothy Mary Zack, Joseph Zeffiro.

A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO REMEMBER

Looking for a special gift? Or a way to remember a loved one? Or something to record a special event (birth, Baptism, First Communion, Marriage) in the life of your family? A personalized engraved paver placed in our Commemorative Path (beside the church) or in our Garden of Saints (behind the parish office/rectory) may be just the answer. In the Garden we have shrines to Saints Francis of Assisi, Anthony of Padua, Joseph, Therese the Little Flower, and Jude. (We hope to include Saint Patrick in the near future.) Your brick can be placed in front of the saint of your choice. The donation for each brick is $125. Pick up an order form in the literature racks in the church or in the parish office/rectory and return it to 105 Harrison St., New Milford. Engraved bricks will be installed in the spring. Any questions, call 201-261-0148.

YOUR

LOVED ONE’S

NAME

NATIONAL VOCATIONS AWARENESS WEEK —NOVEMBER 6-12

Father,

You invite each one of us by name and ask us to follow you.

We ask that you bless your church in the Archdiocese of Newark

by raising up dedicated and generous leaders from our families and friends

who will faithfully serve your people as Priests, Religious Brothers and Sisters,

and as holy Married and Single people. Inspire us to grow in our relationship with you and open our hearts to accept your invitation.

We ask this in the name of Jesus our Lord. Amen.

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