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SELF REALISATION

AND YOUR GROWTH

What is the first thing that flashes your mind that is

meant for your growth.Are you familiar with the word

DREAMS

No dreams no inspiration

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CONT

How do we achieve our dreams

What are the factors determining it

Determination

Direction

Discipline Dedication

Deadline

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Which one is you

There are three categories of a person

A person who makes things happen

Person who wants things to happen

A person who always wonders what

happened

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The negative part of you

Self put down

Self denial

Self doubt

Self abuse

Self centeredness Self deceit

Self indulgence

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Conversion---positive

Self respect

Self confidence

Self worth

Self acceptance

Self love Self knowledge

Self discipline

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Questions often asked to yourself

I am unlucky

I am born under wrong stars

I am not smart

I am not educated enough

I am not good-looking

I dont have enough time

I dont have money If only I had opportunity

IfI had a family support

I dont have contacts

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Why do we fear these questions

Fear of failing

Fear of the unknown Fear of rejection

Fear of being unprepared

Fear of making wrong decision Lack of knowledge

Lack of discipline

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How do u overcome

Evaluate your weaknesses convert to

strengths Learn from other peoples mistakes

Associate yourself with positive moralepeople

Make decisions with a larger picture in mind Always think long term

Dont look for something for nothing

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Introspect to improve yourself

Difference is the first sign of thought

We are what our thoughts have made us sotake care of what you think

Our thoughts make things beautiful, our

thoughts make things ugly

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IMPULSE

The first fact states that before we perform anyaction, there is and there must be a thought thatprovides the impulse for that action

The second fact of thought management states thatit is not the world around us that affects us-it is ourattitude to the world around us around us whichaffects us

The third fact states that there is a definite relationbetween thoughts and mind-in fact the mind isnothing but a flow of thoughts

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CONTROL YOUR ANGER

Anger is the reason why we fight and quarrel with

each other Anger distorts the perception of a person and can

make things appear different from what we actually

are

What ever may be the source, the effects of anger

can be very negative and destructive

An angry person commits mistake that lead to his

own destruction

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CURB YOUR JEALOUSY

Jealousy is nothing but fear of a sense of inferiority

Stop comparing Hindrance in achieving the importance we desire

so., jealousy is the root of all evils

You are hurting and wasting your energy

So ,control motivate yourself to strive harder toachieve your goals

Arise awake and stop not till goals of our livesreached

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MAKING SURE YOU PRESENTYOURSELF POSITIVELY

People may try to avoid passing judgment tooquickly at first meetings

They assess how they look on the first meeting

You get only one chance

Impression of a person is formed on the first fourminutes of the meeting

The rest 80% is non-verbal signs After the first impression is made it is seldom

changed

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FACTORS DETERMININGTHE FIRST IMPRESSION

Appearance

personality Grooming

Dress code

Body odor

Body language

Communication

Etiquette

confidence

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PERSONALITY

Overall

How you carry your self Physical features

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GROOMING

Care to maintain yourself

Well mannered Next to perfect

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Dress code

Color combination

Trouser /shirt Tie

Cuff link

Socks Shoes

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BODY ODOR

Deodorant

Perfume

Cologne

Talcum

Shower

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BODY LANGUAGE

Non-verbal communication

Gestures Postures

Twitching

Shaking legs Fidgeting

Clicking fingers

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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

Universal language-English

Pronunciation Flow of the language

Practice makes perfect

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ETIQUETTE

Personal etiquette

Table etiquette Social etiquette

Office etiquette

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CONFIDENCE

Last but not the least with confidence we can

walk the path of life and attain all that wewant to achieve

So, it is confidence hard work and sheer

determination

Enables the mission of life to accomplish