Dr. Abhay SheteMD, LLBMSc (Psychology)MSc (Sociology)

WELCOME TO COLLEGE

CREATE YOUR FUTURE

Common Scenario

LIFE – WHAT IS IT?

CHALLENGES TODAY

Success is created and doesn’t happen overnightThere are six steps to successful living

Acquiring of SkillsStrategic planningRelatedness and being with peopleForming positive public opinionBeing aware of TimeSeeking His Blessings

Steps to Success

The first steps is being proficient in your work.

There is no excuse for being inefficient.Efficiency needs sincerity and hard work.Be focused. Eat well, sleep properly and do

regular exercises.Nurture healthy habits. NO SMOKINGNO ALCOHOLManage your emotions properly especially

towards opposite sex.

Acquiring Skills

FOCUSED

Each and everyone has to plan for their careers.

Only you will be aware of the requirements of the goal you are seeking.

A stitch in time saves nine.Avoiding distractions – FB, Watsup, SMS and

chatting during reading hours is important. You can keep the cell on silent mode when

you are reading. Playing and excelling at sports is also

important.

Strategic Planning

IT NEEDS TO BE PLANNED

Everyone has to learn to live within the group.

It is an art that has to be cultivated. We need friends and seniors who can help us

and support us. Do not stay alone and encourage those not

mixing to come forward in the groups. Learn to handle differences – agree to

disagree.Learn to control anger. Praising gets you more value than criticising.

Staying with the Group

ALL OR NONE

Public opinion has to be created.You are being watched by people around you.Your ability to fight the distractions is being tested. You need to handle your physique, thoughts and

actions properly so that a positive opinion is created.

Learn to say No when you want to say No.You can not please all the people all the time. It doesn’t mean that you have to please people to

form good opinion. You have to stay firm on your convictions.

POSITIVE PUBLIC OPINION

WORKING TOGETHER

Being aware of the time is crucial for success.If the conditions are favorable the person

may get results. In case of failure, one must study the factors that resulted in failure and start again.

Our expectations from ourselves and others are dependent on the surroundings and hence the study of time is important.

However one must not blame stars for any failure. Though the conditions may not be favorable at present, they improve as time passes.

TIME

Knowledge of time

One has to remember that 99% of the results depend on the first 5 steps. The remaining 1% is by way of blessings.

Seeking His Blessings make us humble and down to earth. It is very easy to get carried over by success.

By praying and joining hands one can remain connected to the supreme powers.

One can be atheist and yet remain humble by acknowledging the powers of Universe.

Seeking help becomes easy once we learn to pray.

Blessings

FAITH IS IMPORTANT

Stay Focused on your dreams.Keep distractions to minimum. Cultivate healthy habits leading to healthy

body and mind. Cultivate healthy relationships – learn to

respect. Develop good emotional quotient by creating

positive emotions. Be part of a group that is conductive to your

development.

Take Home Message

ALL THE BEST