Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory

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publisher Litho Publishing, Inc. editor Beth Andrews art direction Brooks Graphic Design The Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory is a unique Directory full of useful information about planning your wedding. It includes checklists of what to do when, lists of who pays for what, and facts about invitations, announcements and much more. Your Wedding Day is very special and we encourage you to use professionals like those you will find in the Directory. When contacting those professionals listed in the Directory, let them know how you found them. Finally, please let us hear from you—your comments will help us provide a better service to you and others in the future. Congratulations!The Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory, Issue 47 Spring/Summer 2012, P.O. Box 530892, Birmingham, AL 35253, 205-871-6322 or [email protected]. Listing and Advertising rates available upon request. All rights reserved. Copying or reproduction, in whole or in part, of this publication is strictly prohibited. Every effort has been made to assure the accuracy of the information contained herein. However, the publisher cannot guarantee such accuracy. Listings and advertising are subject to errors, omissions, and/or other change without notice.

©Copyright 1995 Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory

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8 GroomingtheGroom

12 MusicalMenu

22 NewspaperRequirements

26 WeddingExpenses

28 UniqueWeddingMemento

34 FeatureWedding/ TuscaloosaBride

38 Groom’sChecklist

39 MarriageLicense

40 WeddingPlanner

42 SettingYourBudget

43 ComingHomeChecklist

44 DirectoryofServices

48 HowToCutaWeddingCake

50 ThePerfectWeddingToast

56 Friday&SundayWeddings

58 ReceptionChecklist

64 ChoosingaStationer

66 DivorcedParents

68 NewOrleans

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Addressing Formal Invitations Todayby Andrea Watson, The Fine Hand: Calligraphy, Etc.

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Every issue of the Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory contains an excellent guide on “How to address invita-

tions.” It is, however, necessarily brief, and inevitably questions arise as individual cases present themselves. Though formal wedding invitations maintain a sense of tradition, life in twenty-first century America has given rise to many changes in family life and nomen-clature. Your guest list will have many vari-ants from the usual Mr. and Mrs. As a callig-rapher I have made a study over the years of correct traditional forms and contemporary practices. Following are a few special cases that should help you avoid common errors.

When a married woman retains her maiden name, the invitation should have her name first, followed by the word and and the name of her spouse. The and indicates that this is a married couple:

Ms. Mary Elizabeth Jones and Mr. Steven Smith

Married couples using professional honorifics who share the same last name:

Both are doctors:Drs. Kathryn Anne and William Edward Coates

orThe Doctors Coates

If she is a doctor and he is not:Dr. Kathryn Anne Coates and Mr. William Edward Coates

If she retains her maiden name:Dr. Kathryn Anne Turner and Mr. William Edward Coates

Unmarried persons whose invitation will be sent to one address should have their names on separate lines:

Dr. Kathryn Anne Turner Mr. Steven James Smith

Using Mrs. with a woman’s given name is poor form. Whether married, widowed, or di-vorced, a woman should be Ms. Mary Smith or Mrs. John Smith. The Mrs. comes with the man’s name. If a divorced woman retains her ex-husband’s surname and wishes to con-tinue to use the honorific Mrs. it should be followed by her maiden surname and her former husband’s surname. If Mary and John Smith divorce, she may correctly be Ms. Mary Smith or Mrs. Jones Smith, but never Mrs. Mary Smith.

When using first names, it’s ladies first: Mary and John Smith. This isn’t merely etiquette, it logically keeps the man’s name together.

When children are invited you will need to know their ages and sexes to list them prop-erly. Age is a factor in deciding whether they should be sent separate invitations. The con-temporary custom of giving surnames to girls as well as boys creates confusion. Note that double envelope sets make this somewhat eas-ier, as children’s names can be listed on the inner envelope. Single envelopes can’t sup-port more than two lines for names, so un-less the children are of the same sex, separate invitations become a necessity.

There are bound to be other special cases that are real stumpers. An experienced calligra-pher can help you sort these out while main-taining good form.


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Whatever the style and degree of formality you choose for your wedding, there are a few key

points to keep in mind regarding fit when ordering formalwear for groom and grooms-men. Shirts, whether pleated front panels or traditional smooth-fronted ones, should fit snugly around the neck. The bottom hem of the pants should touch the top of the shoes. Jackets should fit snugly, but comfortably with some room at the waist. Sleeves should end at the wrist bone with the same number of shirt buttons showing. Vents on the sides of the jacket should lay smoothly and follow bodylines. The collar should hug the neck and the lapels shouldn’t buckle. With all the attention given to the men’s clothes, an important detail that is sometimes

overlooked is the groomsmen’s hair. Men are generally more casual about haircuts than women, but they should be sure to get a trim two weeks before the wedding to add the fin-ishing touch to their wedding finery.

A Groom’s Glossary

Tails: The ultimate formal attire, which should only be worn after 6 p.m., this en-semble features a winged-collar tuxedo shirt, ascot or bow tie, vest, tuxedo trousers and tailcoat. The full-dress ensemble comes in black, midnight blue, or grey, with a white shirt and matching or all white accessories.

Tuxedo: Either single or double-breasted, this formal suit has satin shawl or notched lapels. Matching pants sport a satin stripe down the pant-legs. Tailored in silk, mo-hair, wool or blend, in black, grey, ivory or white, tuxedos come in a range of styles sure to suit any taste.

Vest: This is often referred to as a waistcoat and comes in single- or double-breasted styles easily worn with nearly any tuxedo en-semble. With the open back vest, a band goes around the neck and another is fastened across the back. Tails, strollers, white-tie and director’s suits require a different style of vest.

White tie: Worn only to the most formal evening weddings, this ensemble consists of a black tailcoat and black tuxedo trousers with a white bow tie, winged-collar shirt and white vest.

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For the Procession Down the Aisle• “Air on the G String,” Bach: contemplative,

passionate.• “Allegro” from The Water Music, Handel:

jaunty, uplifting ditty.• “Andante” from String Quartet in A Minor,

Op. 29, Schubert: tender theme from the opera Rosamunde.

• “Andante” from Piano Concerto No.21 K.467, Mozart: used in the movie Elvira Madigan.

• “Arioso” from Cantata 156, Bach: nice, less-used substitute for “Air on the G String.”

• “Bridal Chorus” from Act III of Lohengrin, Wagner: “Here Comes the Bride.”

• “Canon in D,” Pachelbel: melodious round that keeps growing and growing.

• “The Four Seasons,” Vivaldi: various move-ments that provide uplifting, classic touch.

• “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring,” Bach: simple, swirling and sentimental.

• “Largo” from the opera Xerxes, Handel: slow, moving melody that builds to majestic climax.

• “Nocturne” from String Quartet No. 2, Borodin: passionate tune in the show Kismet.• “Romanza” from Eine Kleine Nachtmusik, Mozart: nothing more beautiful than this stately

melody.• “See, The Conquering Hero Comes” from the oratorio Judas Maccabeus. Handel:

bold tune. Perfect for the unabashed bride who idolizes her groom.• “Sheep May Safely Graze,” Bach: a heart tugger.• “Traumerie” from Kinderscene, Schumann: dreamy.• “Trumpet Tune,” Purcell, “Trumpet Voluntary in D,” Jeremiah Clarke: regal Baroque

fanfares.• “Vocaluse,” Rachmaninoff: gorgeous love song with a hint of tragedy.

For the Recessional• “Hornpipe” from The Water Music, Handel: noble Baroque tune.• “Ode to Joy,” Beethoven: solemnity meets hope.• “Rondeau,” Jean Joseph Mouret: theme from PBS’s Masterpiece Theatre.• “Wedding March” from Midsummernight’s Dream, Mendelssohn: a joyous

conclusion to start the rest of your lives together.• “Hallelujah Chorus,” by Handel: if you really want to make a statement!

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The Tuscaloosa NewsEngagement AnnouncementsPackage A is $195, which includes a two-column announcement up to 5 inches tall, including a one-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting. Package B is $350, which includes two-column and up to 10 inches tall, including a two-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting. Wedding AnnouncementsPackage choices for weddings include:• Free basic announcement with no photo. No additional information can be added to the announcement form.• Free basic announcement with photo for $125. • Free basic announcement with photo and online for $138.50.• Package A is $195 and includes a two-col-umn wide announcement up to 5 inches tall, including a one-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online post-ing. • Package B is $350 and includes a two-col-umn wide announcement up to 10 inches tall, including a one-column (more copy–450 words) or two-column photo (less copy –225 words) printed in color or black & white, and online posting.• Package C is $495 and includes a two-col-umn wide announcement (500 words) up to 15 inches tall, including a two-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

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Ringsm Marriage Licensem Clergyman’s Fee ($10–$100, inquire)m Bride’s Flowersm Boutonnieres, Gloves, Ties for

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THREE TO T WELVE MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING Set budget and division of financial obligations Buy engagement ring Choose best man and ushers (one usher per 50 guests) Set appointment with clergyman Furnish family guest list to fiancée Plan honeymoon with fiancée (check passports and visas, if necessary) Order bride’s flowers Order mother’s flowers Plan correct formal attire with fiancée and groomsmen Make reservations for rehearsal dinner Take dance lessons

T WO MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING Select your wardrobe for honeymoon Select wedding rings with fiancée Choose gifts for ushers and best man Select bride’s gift Reserve limousine and/or special transportation

ONE MONTH BEFORE WEDDING Arrange all needed insurance and review legal/medical/religious documents Arrange lodging and transportation for out-of-town guests Have medical examination and blood test

T WO WEEKS TO ONE DAY BEFORE WEDDING DAY Get marriage license Provide final guest count for rehearsal dinner to caterer or restaurant Arrange for clergyman’s fee Plan bachelor dinner or party with best man Pick up wedding bands Pack for honeymoon

B E S T M A N ’ S C H E C K L I S T

Take charge of ushers Be responsible for wedding rings Be responsible for clergyman’s fee

Be responsible for license Check on all travel arrangements for honeymoon Prepare to toast bride and groom

G R O O M ’ S C H E C K L I S T

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M A R R I A G E L I C E N S E

T U S C A L O O S A C O U N T Y C O U R T H O U S E

TUSCALOOSA COUNT Y MARRIAGE LICENSE REQUIREMENTS

1. You must be at least 18 years old.

2. If you are under the age of 18, both parents must come in and sign the application, as well as a Marriage Bond. We MUST see the parent’s driver’s license and the minor’s certified birth certificate issued from the Health Department in the last 30 days.

3. YOU MUST HAVE:

a. Driver’s License; State issued Non-driver’s license or a passport for identification.

b. Social Security cards are required if you have a social security number.

c. If you do not have a social security number, a notarized affidavit attesting to the fact that you were never issued and/or have never had a social security number must be submitted at the time you purchase your marriage license.

d. Divorce decrees if either party has been divorced or death certificate if spouse is deceased.

e. $44.00 CASH for the license. (Checks, debit cards or credit cards NOT ACCEPTED.)

f. $15.00 more if you are getting married here by the Judge of Probate.

TOTAL $59.00 CASH

4. If you are interested in being married here, you must call that morning to make sure someone will be here to marry you. We DO NOT make appointments!

5. Blood tests are NOT required!

6. Marriage licenses are valid for 30 days in the State of Alabama. That means once the license is issued to you, you must get married within 30 days. The license is void after 30 days and valid ONLY in Alabama. You may purchase your license in any county in Alabama. It is not required that you buy it in the county where you are to be married.

Monday – Friday 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.(4:15 if applying for license)

Marriage Clerk:349-3870, Extension #204

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THREE TO T WELVE MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING Determine budget with parents / number of guests Create a website for your wedding Type of wedding (very formal, formal, semi-formal) Date, time and place for ceremony Visit officiating clergy for consultation Choose bridal consultant if desired Type of reception Reserve facility for reception Wedding dress Bridal attendants Attendants’ dresses and mothers’ gowns Guest list Wedding invitations and announcements / calligrapher if desired Thank you and personal stationery Choose photographer and videographer Registry for gifts: china, silver, crystal patterns Buy a wedding album, gift and guest record file Find a new home and plan furnishings Start your make-up lessons, skin care, hairstyling program Start workout program with personal trainer Ceremony and reception music Take dance lessons Order flowers Make appointment for pre-marital examination Consult caterer Discuss honeymoon with groom

T WO MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING Check state requirements for marriage license Order wedding and groom cake Address and mail invitations Arrange for display of gifts Wedding gown fittings Attendants’ gown fittings Shop for trousseau Coordinate men’s formalwear attire Select attendants’ and groom’s gifts

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W E D D I N G C H E C K L I S T

ONE MONTH BEFORE WEDDING Mail invitations Have programs printed Set appointment to have make-up and hairstyling for portrait Check groom on wedding ring(s) Final fitting of wedding dress and all gowns Have wedding portrait taken Send portrait to newspapers Complete arrangements for reception Arrange transportation and accommodations for out-of-town guests Arrange for moving (if necessary) Arrange for party rental equipment Arrange transportation to ceremony and reception Arrange for your joint or new checking accounts Have all charge accounts changed / change of address to post office Acknowledge each gift as it arrives Arrange for insurance on wedding gifts Arrange for yoga class to help with stress from the above Arrange for preservation of bridal bouquet

T WO WEEKS TO ONE DAY BEFORE WEDDING DAY Arrange final seating for the reception Write toasts for rehearsal dinner Check all gowns and accessories / break in wedding shoes at home Complete trousseau and going away clothes Write checks to vendors, put in envelope and give to Best Man to pass out Give caterer final estimate of attendance at reception Discuss specific shots with photographer Make arrangements with Best Man to return tuxedo rentals Present gifts at and attend bridesmaid’s luncheon Arrange any last minute transportation Put all wedding clothes in one place Arrange wedding day time schedule Get lots of beauty rest

WEDDING DAY Relax – Have a leisurely breakfast Take time to bathe and dress leisurely Make-up by an artist, manicure, hair styled Leave all details to those responsible This is your day – Enjoy!


S E T T I N G Y O U R B U D G E T

There are many details to investigate before signing any contractual agreements for your wedding services. Once you’ve checked off the items listed below and made your decisions, get in writing everything you expect.

BUDGET EST.COST

Stationery $________ ________Invitations ________Announcements ________Thank you Notes ________Reply Cards ________At-home Card ________Monogrammed Napkins ________Matches ________Photography $________ ________Formal Portraits ________ Engagement ________ Wedding ________Wedding Album ________Parent’s Album ________Extra Prints ________Videography $________ ________Reception $________ ________Food ________Beverage ________Wedding Cake ________Groom’s Cake ________Gratuities and Taxes ________Valet Parking ________Officer ________Music $________ ________Wedding ________Reception ________Soloist ________Bridal Attire $________ ________Dress ________Headpiece and Veil ________Undergarments ________Jewelry ________Shoes ________Trousseau ________Garter ________Preservation-Gown ________Hair Stylist ________Nails ________Wedding Consultant $________ ________

BUDGET EST.COST

Transportation $________ ________Limousines ________Carriage, etc. ________Parking ________Wedding Parties $________ ________Bridal Luncheon ________Rehearsal Dinner ________Out-of-town Guests ________Fees $________ ________Church/Synagogue ________Officiant ________Assistants (cantors, altar boys) ________Gifts $________ ________Maid of Honor ________Best Man ________Bridesmaids ________Groomsmen ________Other ________Flowers $________ ________At Ceremony ________Bridal Bouquet ________Attendants’ ________ (male, female) ________Mothers’ Corsages ________Reception ________Miscellaneous $________ ________Bird Seed Bags ________Hotel Accommodations ________(for out-of-town guests) ________Honeymoon $________ ________Transportation ________Accommodations ________Daily Allowance ________

Total Budget $ _________________

Total Est. Cost $ _________________

Typical Breakdown of Wedding Expenses

Reception Costs 30%Clothes and Gifts 30%Ceremony Costs 11%Photography 11%Invitations & Stationery 6%Miscellaneous 12%


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Following is a list of whom to inform and what to modify when your name changes.

Notify parents and family you are home, Don’t forget to thank them for their cooperation.

Finish sending thank-you notes.

Check your wedding gifts. If you have duplicates or ones that don’t fit your taste, return them immediately.

Select your wedding photographs.

Change all previous addresses such as driver’s licenses, charge cards, insurance policies, etc.

Notify business associates.

Discuss with each other and lawyer the need for insurance such as homeowner, jewelry and maternity benefits on your medical insurance.

Work up a budget on a weekly and monthly basis.

Invite parents to dinner.

Have a party inviting groomsmen and bride’s attendants. Show them the wedding and honeymoon photographs.

Driver’s License

Auto Registration & Title

Auto Insurance

Social Security Card

Credit Cards

Checking/Savings Accounts

Health Insurance Policies

Life Insurance Policies

Telephone Number & Listing

Post Office

Charge Accounts

Income Tax Deduction Status with Employer

Lending Institutions

Medical/School records

Wills

Accountant

Securities Broker

Leases with Landlord

Library Card

Voter Registration Card

Organization Memberships

Passport

Safe Deposit Box

Magazine/Newspaper Subscriptions

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DirectoryofServicesbakers

A CUTTING EDGE CATERERSwww.acuttingedgecatering.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 633-1032IT TAKES THE CAKE BAKERY & CATERING2210 B 9th Avenue, Northport . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5008MARY’S CAKES & PASTRIES, LLC412-B 22nd Avenue, N’port . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-8610www.maryscakesandpastries.comONE STOP WEDDINGS & PARTIES3076 McFarland Blvd. W. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2062Kathie Simpson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-3695

bartending servicesJ & S BARTENDINGMarc Jones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected]

beauty/healthBRITTANY BENTON MASSEYFreelance Hair & Makeup Artist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected] RESULTZ STYLES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-4421Sharonda Hogan/Hair & Makeup Artist . . . . . . [email protected] ORTHODONTICS401 Towncenter Blvd, Suite A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-5524www.mckinneyortho.com

bridal/formal apparel/ formalwear

BEAUTY MARK, INC.1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005www.shopbeautymark.comBURCH & HATFIELD FORMAL SHOPS, INC.1810 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 759-14662623 McFarland Blvd. East . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 366-0077CLASSY THREADS900 Skyland Blvd. E., McFarland Mall, Ste. 4. . . 562-8776www.classythreadsbridalandformal.comLA SHEA1004 7th Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 435-2262LADY IN LACE410 Downtown Plaza . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-5223SASH – A BRIDESMAID’S BOUTIQUE1653 McFarland Blvd. N., Suite F-2 . . . . . . . . . . . 344-4033(located within Part Two) www.shop-sash.com

bridal luncheon/shower/ rehearsal dinner venues

CHUCK’S FISH508 Greensboro Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-9370www.chucksfish.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1720

THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963www.cypressinnrestaurant.comHOTEL CAPSTONE320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200www.capstonehotel.comSOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN15308 Shepard Park Roadwww.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com . . . . . . . . 345-5765

bridal registryANNA KATE & CO.80 McFarland Boulevard, Suite 7. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2206HUDSON-POOLE JEWELERS1111 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-5535MATT CLINTON DESIGNS705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488www.mattclintondesigns.com

calligrapherTHE FINE HAND CALLIGRAPHY, ETC.Andrea Watson. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected] LETTERS – CALLIGRAPHY . . . . . . . 393-1873

caterersA CUTTING EDGE CATERERSwww.acuttingedgecatering.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 633-1032THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963www.cypressinnrestaurant.comHOTEL CAPSTONE320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200www.capstonehotel.comIT TAKES THE CAKE BAKERY & CATERING2210 B 9th Avenue, Northport . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5008ONE STOP WEDDINGS & PARTIES3076 McFarland Blvd. W. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2062Kathie Simpson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-3695SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN15308 Shepard Park Roadwww.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com . . . . . . . . 345-5765

dance choreographyLET’S DANCE939 McFarland Blvd. (next to Cici’s Pizza) . . . . . [email protected]

entertainment & musicALBATROSS ENTERTAINMENTwww.DJ-Albatross.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 523-4812EAT MY BEATS1020 15th Street . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-9119www.EatMyBeats.comTOTAL ENTERTAINMENTwww.TotalEntertainmentEvents.com. . . . . . . . . . 750-0539


event planningDREAMS CREATED BY K. CRAWFORDK. Crawford . . . . . . . . . [email protected] / 393-0134JESTER’S FLOWERS2515 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9661www.jestersflowers.comMATT CLINTON DESIGNS705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488www.mattclintondesigns.comSOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN15308 Shepard Park Roadwww.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com . . . . . . . . 345-5765SPECIAL EVENTS – A GAME DAY TENTS CO.1419 22nd Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 469-0105www.SpecialEventsAL.com

floral preservationMEMORIES – FLOWER PRESERVATIONLynn Morgan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-7428www.memories-flowerpreservation.com

floristAMY’S FLORIST4521 Longview Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-2242www.amystheflorist.comBAMA BLOSSOMS1006 7th Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-7155www.BamaBlossoms.comBEAUTY MARK, INC.1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005BRYANT DESIGN, LLCGreta Bryant . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected]’S FLOWERS2515 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9661www.jestersflowers.comMATT CLINTON DESIGNS705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488www.mattclintondesigns.comSOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN15308 Shepard Park Roadwww.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com . . . . . . . . 345-5765SUE’S FLOWERS – Tyric Humphryes405 Main Avenue, N’port . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-2100TUSCALOOSA FLOWER SHOPPE2208 University Boulevard . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-3065Tuscaloosaflowershoppe.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 861-7760

guest accommodationsHOTEL CAPSTONE320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200www.capstonehotel.comCOURTYARD & FAIRFIELD INN by MARRIOTT4115 Courtney Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-8384www.marriott.com

HILTON GARDEN INN800 Hollywood Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 722-0360www.tuscaloosa.hgi.comhoneymoon specialist

TRAVEL PLANNERS, INC.3918 Montclair Road, Birmingham . . . . . . .205-870-3031www.travelpi.comhorse & carriage service

MALLISHAM’S GLASS SLIPPER CARRIAGE TOURS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3771Ben & Eddie Mallisham. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-8496

invitationsANNA KATE & CO.80 McFarland Boulevard, Suite 7. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2206BEAUTY MARK, INC.1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005JANE MCADAMS [email protected].. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 239-1047www.janemcadamspress.com KYLE FINE STATIONERY908 Queen City Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 722-2291www.KyleFineStationery.com

jewelryBEAUTY MARK, INC.1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005HUDSON-POOLE JEWELERS1111 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-5535www.HudsonPoole.com

lighting designALBATROSS ENTERTAINMENTwww.DJ-Albatross.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 523-4812 EAT MY BEATS1020 15th Street . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-9119www.EatMyBeats.com TOTAL ENTERTAINMENTwww.TotalEntertainmentEvents.com. . . . . . . . . . 750-0539

limousine serviceCROWN LIMOUSINE521 30th Avenue, N’port . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-3875www.crown-limo.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1-888-353-5466PRESTIGE LIMOUSINE SERVICEwww.prestigelimotuscaloosa.net. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected]. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 333-9879

music

SOUTHEASTERN MUSIC GALLERY5500 Old Montgomery Hwy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-1414

musicians

CHASE EVAN MUSIC . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 792-1301www.chaseevan.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 454-8427


CRAIN SISTERS – HARPIST AND [email protected] . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 393-6407www.crainsnestband.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1416 HARPIST—WEDDING AND RECEPTIONSMary Beth Cavert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6777THE LAMB FAMILY VIOLIN ENSEMBLEwww.lambfamilymusic.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5262WEDDING FLUTIST/VOCALIST & GUITARISTStephanie Whatley Farmer & Jeff Farmer . . . . . . [email protected]

photographyGARY FRANKLIN PHOTOGRAPHYwww.garyfranklinphotography.com . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9719HOLLOWAY PHOTOGRAPHYLarry Holloway. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 553-8656www.hollowayproductions.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-2438JENNIFER MCATEER PHOTOGRAPHYwww.jennifermcateerphotography.com . . . . . . . . 454-3998MEGAN FOREHAND PHOTOGRAPHYwww.meganforehandphoto.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 886-6020SABRINA HARLESS [email protected]. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-2963www.sabrinaharless.comMOMENTS NOTICED PHOTOGRAPHYBobby Johnson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-9461www.momentsnoticed.comSCOTTIE JONES PHOTOGRAPHY . . . . . . 372-3777 scottiejonesphotography.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . or 657-0104SKIP BAUMHOWER PHOTOGRAPHY2428 6th Street, www.baumhower.com . . . . . . . . 310-8088STEPHANIE WHATLEY PHOTOGRAPHYwww.stephaniewhatleyphotography.com.. . . . . . [email protected] booths

FUN FACTORYwww.funfactoryfun.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [email protected] EVENTS1419 22nd Ave.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 469-0105www.specialeventsal.comTOTAL ENTERTAINMENTTotalEntertainmentEvents.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-0539rentals

ABZ RENT ALL1331 McFarland Blvd. NE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 759-5444www.abzrent-all.comBEAUTY MARK, INC.1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005www.shopbeautymark.com

DREAMS—LUXURY LINENSK. Crawford . . . . . . [email protected] / 393-0134SPECIAL EVENTS – A GAME DAY TENTS CO.1419 22nd Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 469-0105www.SpecialEventsAL.com

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videographers

ACTION VIDEOwww.4actionvideo.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 394-0141HOLLOWAY PRODUCTIONSLance Holloway . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 553-8656www.hollowayproductions.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-9263

wedding & reception sites

ALABAMA STATE PARKSwww.AlaPark.comBATTLE-FRIEDMAN HOUSE1010 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-6138BRYANT CONFERENCE CENTERwww.bama.ua.edu/~bcc/ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 348-3001CHUCK’S FISH508 Greensboro Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-9370www.chucksfish.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1720HOTEL CAPSTONE320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200www.HotelCapstone.comMAXWELL-PETERS HOME . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 343-1691302 Main Avenue, Northport . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 886-8638SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN15308 Shepard Park Roadwww.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com . . . . . . . . 345-5767THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963www.cypressinnrestaurant.comTHE JEMISON MANSION1305 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-2906THE L&N STATION301 Greensboro Ave . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-8386THE OAKS430 Walnut St., Centreville, AL. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 225-0044www.theoaksatcentreville.comTUSCALOOSA COUNTY PARK & RECREATION AUTHORITYwww.tcpara.org . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 562-3220

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The most important info is to(1) remove the top tier which is usu-ally saved and

(2) obviously remove the topper and any oth-er non-edible decorations, then(3) start from the top and work your way down the cake.

Finally, if there are more than 3 tiers, remove the tiers before cutting to avoid having the tiers slip off while cutting.

General GuidelinesThe first step is to use the right knife. Al-ways use a sharp, thin knife. The cuts should be made by first inserting the knife straight down into the cake, and then by pulling the knife at an angle toward the outer edge. Be-fore the next cut, wipe the knife clean with a damp cloth.

Three-Tiered Round Cake1. Start from the top by removing the 6" tier, which is usu-ally the bride and groom’s cake to be saved.2. Cut a circle about two inches from the

outer edge of the 10" tier.3. Work from this circle and make vertical cuts about one inch apart, until the ring is completely sliced.4. Use the same starting procedure and cut another two-inch ring, again slicing into one-inch pieces.5. Repeat the procedure until the tier is com-pleted; then repeat entire process on 14" tier until all the cake has been served.

Three-Tiered Square Cake1. Start from the top by removing the 6" tier, which is usually the bride and groom’s cake to be saved.2. Work from any side to cut a horizontal line about two inches from the outer edge of the tier.3. Slice from right to left to make vertical cuts about one inch apart, until the entire row has been sliced.4. Cut another horizontal line two inches from the new edge, and slice this row.5. Repeat until the entire tier has been cut.6. You should produce five rows in the 10" tier.7. Move to the 14" and repeat the process for seven rows.

Heart and Oval CakesHeart and oval shaped cakes are cut in a simi-lar fashion as square and rectangular cakes.

Hexagonal and Petal CakesHexagonal shaped and petal shaped cakes are cut up in the same way as for round cakes.

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You’ll save time, you’ll probably save a signif-icant amount of money, and you’ll find that your guests may appreciate having a Saturday free to spend time with you and the other guests they know.

Maximize Your DollarFor Friday or Sunday weddings, the majority of banquet facilities, photographers, video producers, musicians/entertainers and lim-ousine services are much more willing to ne-gotiate in order to reach a price that suits your budget. Vendors tend to see Friday and Sunday as bonus days, a time when they can earn income. Savings on these services can really add up, making this option a great way to save money without having to sacrifice the quality of your wedding.

Save TimeOn a Friday, you’ll probably have your wed-ding in the evening, which means that the ceremony is followed immediately by dinner. This means that you will avoid the extra cost and hassle of a one-to-two hour interim reception or cocktail party. Having the ceremony and reception back to back may en-sure more people at the church ceremony. Additionally, a Friday/Sun-day wedding frees up at least one day of the weekend, generally making your family, friends and guests more appreciative of the extra time, especially if they are traveling.

Save the DatePlanning for a Friday or a Sunday wedding makes it much more likely that you will be able to reserve the church, hall, music and other services on the date of your choice. Choosing a Friday or Sunday date allows you to avoid making several calls to numerous vendors, only to hear, “Sorry, we’re booked on that date.”

Rehearsal Is EasyRestaurants are usually thrilled to have re-hearsal dinners booked on Thursdays or oth-er evenings during the week, since those are typically their slower business days. You will find a more relaxed atmosphere and the staff will be more attentive to your party’s needs. In selecting a Friday or Sunday date for your event, you’ll help both your budget and your odds of getting exactly the wedding you want, while also allowing for more time ded-icated to finalizing last minute details. You can use the extra day to catch your breath, and use the extra money to purchase some-thing special.


Imagine your wedding or reception among thearchitectural remnants of Alabama’s one-time capitol

or on a terrace overlooking Lake Tuscaloosa...PARA is ready to help you find the perfect venue for your wedding or reception.

Whether you are planning a unique design for an indoor space or want to let nature be the backdrop, you can set the scene for a memorable occasion. With 36 parks and

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Our venue offers four different room options to accommodate parties of up to 300 guests.

To book your rehearsal dinner or wedding reception contact our Special Events Coordinator at:

(205) 799-1720 or [email protected]

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Let us give your invitations that special touch. Call (205) 393.1873 for all your calligraphy needs.

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You are preparing for one of the biggest days of your life and it’s a big deal!

If you recognize that your invitation is the first glimpse that your guests will have into your wedding day and that first impressions make a big difference, then choosing your sta-tioner will be important to you, as well.

On-line stationers offer convenience, in that the on-line site is available 24/7. Research can be done through on-line sites and blogs to look at a wide variety of invitation designs and styles, helping you formulate your opin-ions, likes and dislikes. However, when it comes down to the education and final selec-tion process, nothing replaces the advantages of your brick and mortar stationery store. Invitation consultants will be passionate about what they do. They will want to get to know you and your event. They will help you sort through the maze of choices.

The world of wedding invitations and wed-ding etiquette is foreign to most people, as it should be, for something that you only plan to do once. There is no need for you to study up on the many rules and requirements of

etiquette to be sure that you do not create an embarrassing faux pas or offend anyone. It is smart to work with a good stationer, who has expertise in etiquette, printing methods, pa-per and design options.

A good stationer has spent time selecting lines that offer the best designs and quality available in a variety of price ranges. Once your selections are made, your brick and mortar stationer can help you resolve any is-sues that arise through the process, handle any troubleshooting with an order, and keep you updated and informed. They will follow up, follow through and keep you on track. You will have more fun working with a good stationer and will also enjoy the confidence that everything will be perfect.

Most stationers can provide anything that involves paper and personalized items for your wedding. They will know your vision and your style and will provide a coordinated look. If you desire a full service, one-stop shopping experience, make an appointment at a convenient time to take full advantage of the services offered.

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correct handling of these delicate matters can help avoid any unwanted tensions. There are several alternatives you should consider in planning your church wedding and reception arrangements to accommodate your divorced parents.

According to protocol, the parent with whom you have lived with the longest issues the in-vitations. The other parent is usually not mentioned unless both parties agree to each of their names being presented. Protocol, however, does not always create good feel-ings. Try to include both parent’s names on the invitation.

When you’re introducing your parents to your future in-laws, it is usually proper to in-troduce the parent with whom you have lived the longest, then introduce your other parent shortly afterward. The bride’s father should always walk his daughter down the aisle,

except under extenuating circumstances. If that is not possible, a substitute can stand in for the the father. A brother, uncle or close family friend will be fine.

Special church seating arrangements can help smooth rough spots. The bride’s mother and her family (parents, husband and children) are seated in the first row. The second row is left empty to afford a better view for the bride’s father, who, after giving her away, is seated with his immediate family in the third row. The same seating arrangement pertains to the groom’s family if they are divorced. Of course, what’s most important isn’t where everyone stands or sits but how they feel about it. In order to head off misunder-standings, it’s best to talk with all parties early on about what your expectations are. This small amount of time and attention devoted to handling these matters will reward you with a day that is as free of tension as it can possibly be.



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Romantic New Orleans begins in the French Quarter at the Hotel Monteleone. Here along the world

famous Royal Street, couples will find luxury from upscale suites to the famous clock and opulent crystal chandelier in the lobby. This designated Historic Hotel of America has welcomed guests since 1886 and is also a Literary Landmark. Many of my favorite authors such as William Faulkner and Tennessee Williams have lodged here and written about Hotel Monteleone.

The hotel’s Vieux Carre Suites are popu-lar, but for a literal “over the top experi-ence,” reserve the Ernest Hemingway Pent-house Suite. After 10:00 p.m. swing open your balcony door and the rooftop pool is steps from your bed—exclusively for the two of you. The newly renovated and expanded 63-year-old Carousel Bar and Lounge has a

new look. This is the only bar in New Orleans that revolves around the room and was used as a clothing store in the film Double Jeopardy, starring Ashley Judd and Tommy Lee Jones.

Be sure and ask about the hotel’s “Romantic Interlude Package” that includes champagne and chocolate covered strawberries, café au lait with beignets at Café’ du Monde, din-ner at Arnaud’s Restaurant and breakfast at Brennan’s. The Bananas Foster—a decadent Brennan’s creation, is world famous. For pure romance, ask for a corner table in the lush courtyard. The legendary Arnaud’s has had patrons from U.S. presidents to celebri-ties, including Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Be sure to sample the Shrimp Arnaud. You will also want to dine in the Wine Room at Chef John Besh’s Restaurant August. Hotel Monteleone recently opened Criollo Res-taurant that features delicious contemporary Louisiana cuisine.

New Orleans Honeymoonby Linda Holloway Photography by www.larryhollowayphotography.com

Hotel Monteleone


Explore the French Quarter and stop by Pi-rate’s Alley to visit the Faulkner House book-store. Jackson Square, the location of an outdoor artist colony, is where you can have your own portrait drawn. Here, you can also begin your romantic carriage ride. Other favorites include boarding a streetcar to the Garden District, shopping along Magazine Street, and for the brave…a ghost or swamp tour. Add River Road to your itinerary where numerous plantations from a bygone era stretch along the Mississippi River. Tour Oak Alley Plantation—lined with live oak trees, and Houmas House Plantation and Gardens

where you can dine at Latil’s Landing, locat-ed in the original 1770’s structure overlook-ing the gardens. Next door, you will find the stately Bocage Plantation. This popular Bed & Breakfast is decorated with fine antiques and tours are also available.

Tourist information1-800-672-6124www.neworleanscvb.com

Hotel Monteleone1-866-338-4684www.hotelmonteleone.com

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