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Communication Skills
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Agenda
Listening Skills
Writing Skills
Presentation Skills: Preparation
Presentation Skills: Presenting
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Communication Skills Overview
Effective communication skills are a
critical element in your career and
personal lives.
We all must use a variety of
communication techniques to both
understand and be understood.
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Most common ways to communicate
Writing
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Communication Goals
To change behavior
To get action
To ensureunderstandingTo persuade
To get andgive
Information
Source: CGAP Direct
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Critical success factor for life
The majority of your
perceived ability comes from
how you communicate
70% How you
communicate it
30% What you know
Source: CGAP Direct
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Listening Skills
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Agenda
1. Motivation
2. How to Listen
3. Paraphrasing, Summarizing and
Questioning
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Part 1
Motivation
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Session Objectives
Be able to:
Describe reasons that communication fails
List strategies to improve communication
Paraphrase and summarize conversations
Use appropriate questioning techniques
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Listening and Speaking are used a lot
9%
16%
30%
45%
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45%
50%
Writing Reading Speaking Listening
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But not taught enough
9%
16%
30%
45%
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10%
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Writing Reading Speaking Listening
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Listening is needed everywhere
Listening skills form the basis of:
Continued learning
Teamwork skills
Management skills
Negotiation skills
Emotional intelligence
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But not practiced effectively
70% of all communication is
Misunderstood
Misinterpreted
Rejected
Distorted
Not heard
Source: CGAP Direct
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Part 2
Howto Listen
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Harry always was a poor listener.
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What if communicationwere not possible?
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Frustration and Chaos!
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Both childrenwant the orange
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Butwithout good listening, neithergetswhat theywant
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Communication
SENDER RECEIVER
Feedback
receiver sender
Communication is the process of sending andreceiving information among people
Source: CGAP Direct
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Messages not delivered due to distortion
Sender Receiver
Feedback
Distortion
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What causes distortion?
Speaker
Language
Wordiness
Semantics
Emotions
Inflections
Listener
Perceptions
Preconceived
notions/expectations
Physical hearing problem
Speed of thought
Personal interests
Emotions
Attention span
No active listening!
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What do you think about?
I have something
really importantto
tell youMaybe I should
get a haircut
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30% of you arent paying
attention right now!
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Clues that you are not listening
Are you simply waiting for your turn to talk?
Are you thinking about your reply before the
other person has finished talking?
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Listening and speakingrequireenergy
Listening takes... concentration and energy
curiosity and open-mindedness
analysis and understanding Speaking requires...
sharp focus
logical thinking
clear phrasing
crisp delivery
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Howto be an active listener
Set the stage Choose an appropriate physical environment
Remove distractions
Be open and accessible
Maintain relaxed, open posture that shows concentration
Ensure mutual understanding
Reflect feelings
Offer acknowledgements (say uh-huh)
Paraphrase main ideas Interrupt to clarify
Confirm next steps
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Howto be an active listener
Understand body language Observe position and posturing
Make eye contact
Consider expression and gestures Suspend judgment
Concentrate
Keep an open mind
Hear the person out
Do not react to emotive words
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ActiveListening (not!)
Behaviors that hinder effective listening Act distracted (look at your watch!)
Tell your own story without acknowledging theirs
Give no response
Invalidate response, be negative Interrupt
Criticize
Diagnose what was said
Give advice/solutions quickly
Change the subject
Reassure without acknowledgment
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Lets practice
Tell the person next to you about your
Research Project
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Tell me your stories
Do you feel your partner understood you?
What made your partner easy/hard to listen to?
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Part 3
Paraphrasing, Summarizing and
Questioning
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Techniques to improve listening skills
PARAPHRASEPARAPHRASE
Restate what wassaidin your own
words
SUMMARIZESUMMARIZE
Pulltogetherthemain points
ofa speaker
QUESTIONQUESTION
Challengespeakerto think further,
clarifying both yourandtheir
understanding
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PracticeParaphrasing
Paraphrasing is simplyrestating what another
person has said in your
own words.
Use phrases such as:
In other words
I gather that
If I understand what youare saying
What I hear you sayingis
Pardon my interruption,but let me see if Iunderstand youcorrectly
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Practice Summarizing
Summarizing pullsimportant ideas, facts or
data together.
Useful for emphasizing key
points and setting the stagefor further discussion.
The person summarizing
must listen carefully in
order to organize the
information systematically.
Try out thesesummarizing phrases:
If I understand you
correctly, your main
concerns are
These seem to be the
key ideas you have
expressed
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Two basic types ofquestions
1. Closed questions:
Get a one-word response and inhibit thought.
Questions begin with who, when and which
2. Open-ended questions: Invite unique thought, reflection or an explanation.
Questions begin withhow, what and how come (not why!).
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Practice Questioning
Rephrase the following closed questions tomake them open-ended:
1. Are you feeling tired?2. Isnt it a nice day?
3. Was the last activity useful?
4. Is there anything bothering you?
5. So everything is fine, then?
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Lets practice
Tell the person next to you what you did lastweekend
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Questions?
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Feedback
Give an assessment of todays session
What did you like most and least?
Assess the verbal presentation?
Assess the slides?
How useful do you think this topic will be for
future classes on communications?