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Nick Rogue Epik
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Background
A different approach (maybe)
Science
Always prepared
"Before studying this method of seduction, I had some success... but only insocial circle and parties, etc. I had no approach anxiety, but had still nevergotten a girl from a bar or club. When I put this stuff into practice, I got laidthe FIRST NIGHT. I almost pulled a second time that night, and then the nextnight, I TURNED A GIRL DOWN in order to chase an even more gorgeous
one. Talk about a turn around!"-Brent R., N. Carolina
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What you NEED for an SNL
Are they common?
In every case, there are 5 elements thatMUST be present
If even one is missing = no sex
If youre even mediocre at all 5 = sex
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The 5 Prerequisites to Sex
1. Approaching
2. Escalation
3. Screening for Logistics
4. Baiting to Invest
5. Going to a Discreet Location
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= TIME
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Prereq #1: Approaching
The #1 thing you can do to INFINITELY increase your oddsof banging her
But tragically, most guys FAIL to do this Master Task(which, by default, means they fail to accomplish the other4 Master Tasks)
All it takes to accomplish this task is to walk up and sayanything that gets an interaction going! MissionAccomplished!
The worst case scenario:You won't end up banging her! My favorite and most effective opener is simply: "Hey"
The absolute WORST opener: Trying to come up with theperfect, "guaranteed" line to get her in bed
Plug: Read How to get laid by simply saying Hello
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Prereq #2: Logistics
1. Who are you here with?
2. How do you know each other?
3. How did you get here?
4. What are your plans for later?
5. What time do you have to wake up in themorning?
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Prereq #3: Escalation
Sexual Tension
3-D Escalation (Isolation)
Kino (physical)
Inoculating Against 5 Hesitations/Objections
Sexual Languaging
SEXUAL FRAMES
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Escalate with: Sexual Frames
The art of speaking dirty but not sleazy
Starts the trend of her viewing you as apotential sexual partner
Frames, once set, amplify over time
Keeps you out of Friend Land
You look like a nice girl, but I detect a serious
naughty side
Youre cute. If you dont stop talking to me, Ill be
forced to get you into bed later.
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Master Task #4: Baiting toInvest The be-all-end-all of seduction
Increases the mistakes youre allowed
Slop factor
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Why it works:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Escalation_of_commitment
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anchoring
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attentional_Bias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choice-supportive_bias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Framing_(social_sciences)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere_exposure_effect
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outcome_bias
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wishful_thinking http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusion_of_transparency
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
Baiting To Invest (Why)
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Cognitive Dissonance
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Many girls begin investing in you on theirown. If she doesn't (or only invests in smallincrements) then you want to bait her.
The process: Throw out the bait
She invests
If not, Prime The Pump and bait again
Reward her
Her actual investment does NOT matterOnly HER PERCEIVED INVESTMENT
Baiting To Invest (How Part 1)
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Qualification
Physically move her (3D Escalation) Properly using silence (The Gravity Hook)
Baiting Openers ("Hey")
Verbal & Nonverbal Kino Baiting Cialdini's Law of Reciprocation (Prime The Pump) Cialdini's Commitment & Consistency (Bring the Slurpee)
Implied Compliance
Roleplays
The Double-Bind (investment) Direct investment request (Verbal/Nonverbal)
"Hijacking"
Baiting To Invest (Some Tools)
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In summation:
Time is the biggest cockblock
Dont be afraid to set sexual frames
Get her to invest
The more she invests,the more you can touch her chest.
Get her to invest in you,
or shell blow some OTHER dude
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Big Deal!
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Questions?