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Knclha| Lhmas gnv _melnvsf| Okvlssa Daxxkmzs
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?% Xkmvm da| fm nggsmxs xn|n}v hlsaflclx| fmemxs# lg |n}avm vmomlwlej znv`mv ondrmesa$xlne# smxxcmdmex gvnd a vmcaxmhrmvsneac lei}v| s}lx# nv znv`lejravx$xldm% Znv`lej ravx$xldmoae aggmox xkm n}xondm ng |n}voasm% \n} da| kawm xn vmra|fmemxs vmomlwmh }ehmv a rvl$waxm hlsaflclx| les}vaeom rnclo|%
8% Xkmvms aenxkmv rvnjvadgnv xkax% Xkm jnwmvedmex lssnvv| |n} kawm cldlxaxlnes nvzmvm lei}vmh# f}x xkm dmhloachmxmvdleaxlne ng hlsaflclx| ls enxafn}x9
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lej g}ccxldm# mwme lg |n} avm omv$xale lx znex s}rrnvx |n}v gadlc|%
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=% \n} kawm xn rvnwm |n}vocald% Dnsx hnoxnvs hnex`mmr xkmlv dmhloac vmonvhs zlxk_nolac _mo}vlx| vmq}lvmdmexs
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|n} avm hlsafcmh aeh fm s}vm|n}v hnoxnv r}xs ae| cldlxaxlnesle |n}v vmonvh aeh.nv zvlxms|n} a smravaxm cmxxmv m{rcalelej|n}v hlajensms# cldlxaxlnes# aehzk| km xkle`s |n} oaex znv`g}ccxldm% Acsn lg |n} fmclmwm|n} fmclmwm |n}v hmrvmsslne lssmwmvm# xkme |n} skn}ch smm`
rvngmsslneac dmexac kmacxkon}esmclej le ahhlxlne xn dmhl$
oaxlne gvnd |n}v gadlc| hnoxnv%
_mm Fnndmv rajm 8
Fnndmv Fvlmgejs
Cleha Gavvne @earr# Axxnvem| ax Caz
A dmdfmv ng xkm Eaxlneac Aoahmd| ngMchmv Caz Axxnvem|s
Cmahlej xkm Za| le Hlsaflclx|#
_rmolac Emmhs aeh Mchmv Caz
Zmhemsha|# Enwmdfmv 6;# 6216 ?
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Onexle}mh gvnd rajm ?
7% \n} d}sx gnccnz rvmsovlfmhxvmaxdmex nv kawm a wmv| jnnhvmasne zk| |n} oaex% Cao` ngdmhloac les}vaeom ls a jnnhvmasne% Enx clej a rvmsovlrxlne
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:% \n}v fmkawlnv le vmjavhs xn}sm ng lccmjac aeh rvmsovlrxlnehv}js# m{omsslwm hvle`lej aeh
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aconknc on}ch aggmox |n}v vmrnvxs
ng rale aeh hmrvmsslne% \n}zn}ch fm zlsm xn mexmv a xvmax$dmex rvnjvad aeh hmdnesxvaxm|n} avm da`lej a sleomvm mggnvxxn jmx fmxxmv f| sxnrrlej xknsmaoxlwlxlms xkax onexvlf}xm xn |n}vrnnv kmacxk%
;% @mmr onrlms ng mwmv|xklej|n} s}fdlx aeh `mmr jnnhvmonvhs% Lxs enx }e}s}ac gnvsndmxklej xn jmx cnsx le xkmdalc nv dlsrcaomh ax a __ ngomxkax clxmvacc| kas k}ehvmhs ngxkn}saehs ng ocaldaex daxxmvsxn hmac zlxk% @mmr a onr| gnv
|n}vsmcg% Jmx f}slemss oavhsgvnd acc hnoxnvs |n} smm aeh`mmr a oacmehav sknzlej xkmhaxms ng |n}v arrnlexdmexs aehxmsxs% @mmr a dmhloac in}veacxn hno}dmex |n}v fah ha|s aehzkn zas zlxk |n} zkme xkaxcasx raelo axxao` klx# |n} kah asmly}vm# aeh enxm knz cnej |n}v
dljvalem casxmh mxo% Onvvmox ae|
mvvnvs |n} avm azavm ng le |n}vdmhloac vmonvhs%
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Zmhemsha|# Enwmdfmv 6;# 6216 =
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F| Dlokmccm Caem
Xvawmclej zlxk Rvleom Zlcclad# xkm H}okmssng Oadfvlhjm jawm kmv vsx srmmok ne gnv$
mlje snlc le _mrxmdfmv# rnslxlnelej kmvsmcg xnfmondm xkm znvchzlhm srn`msrmvsne gnv xkmknsrlom dnwmdmex# aoonvhlej xn Hv% MheleKadyak# xkm vsx hnoxnv xn znv` g}cc$xldm lexkm mch ng meh ng clgm oavm le Daca|sla%
Le @}aca C}dr}v# Rvleom Zlcclad aeh sxaggaeh s}rrnvxmvs gvnd Knsrls Daca|sla# xkmon}exv|s cavjmsx omexvm gnv oavm ng xkm xmvdl$eacc| lcc# clsxmemh as xkm H}okmss vmah n}x xkmsrmmok skm kah zvlxxme kmvsmcg% Xvmaxdmex#s}rrnvx# oavm aeh ahwlom oae rvnwlhm a clgm$clem xn gadlclms ax a xldm ng jvmax emmh# xkm
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ZNVCH HA\ 6216Okaeoms avm |n} dlssmh omcmfvaxlej Znvch
Knsrlom aeh Racclaxlwm Oavm Ha| Noxnfmv1?xk% Le xkm clgm ng xkm H}okmss ng Oad$fvlhjm# knzmwmv# xkmvms clxxcm hn}fx xkax lx
mex }eenxlomh le wlmz ng xkm gaox xkax skm lsgno}smh ne valslej r}fclo azavmemss ng kns$rlom oavm avn}eh xkm znvch%
Xkm vsx dnhmve knsrlom kn}sm$$_x% Okvls$xnrkmvs Knsrlomzas msxafclskmh le Mej$caeh# xkm H}okmss kndm# f| rk|slolae HadmOlomc| _a}ehmvs# zkn le 1Enwmdfmv ls Eaxlneac Knsrlom Dnexk% Xkls
|mavs xkmdm# Ondgnvx% Cnwm% Vmsrmox# ls asxvnej vmdlehmv ng xkm ldrnvxaeom knsrlomoavm rvnwlhmvs rcaom }rne xkm zlskms aeh rvl$nvlxlms ng xknsm xkm| smvwm%
Le kls rvnocadaxlne gnv Eaxlneac KnsrlomDnexk le Enwmdfmv 6212# Rvmslhmex Favao`Nfada ahhvmssmh raxlmexs zkn emmh q}aclx|oavm sa|lej xkax le srlxm ng a xmvdleac lccemss#lehlwlh}acs oae oavv| ne zlxk xkmlv clwms#vmomlwm ondgnvxafcm aeh hljelmh oavm# aeh
Kmavxs xkax Oavm9A ondd}elx| vmsn}vom gnv meh ng clgm lss}ms
_mm Kmavxs# rajm 17
7 Zmhemsha|# Enwmdfmv 6;# 6216
:h h E f 6; 6216
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Knclha| Lhmas gnv \n}v _melnvsf| Okvlssa Daxxkmzs
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dnvacm }r%%% zlxkn}x xmcclej }s> Lx*s
afn}x xldm zm vmx}vemh xkm gawnv%
$Flej Ovnsf| +as Fnf Zaccaom,#
Zklxm Okvlsxdas
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L smm le d| nze gadlc| aeh le xkm
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jmemvaxlnes oae oneemox avn}ehgadlc| xvahlxlnes%
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skadm zkme |n} oneslhmv xkm rn$xmexlac znehmv xkax ondms zlxk xkm
smasne% Xn kmcr da`m xkls |mav
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|n} aeh xkm smelnv le |n}v gadlc|%
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fm rvnfcmds ng sknvx$xmvd +vmomex,dmdnv| vsx% Xkmvm ls a jnnh
okaeom |n}v smelnv zlcc vmdmdfmvOkvlsxdasms gvnd xkmlv oklchknnhle hmxalc% _mx aslhm xldm xn skavm
sxnvlms fmxzmme |n} aeh |n}vravmexs% Kawm a gadlc| dmdfmv
}enfxv}slwmc| vmonvh xkm onewmv$saxlne ne wlhmn% Dnd zlcc mein|
xmcclej xkm sxnvlms aeh |n} zlcc fmxkae`g}c le xkm g}x}vm xkax |n} kawm
xkm vmonvhlej%
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Cmx dm s}jjmsx |n} hlso}ss xklszlxk xkm smelnv le |n}v kn}sm# aeh
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avm afn}x xn dnwm da| smvwm asa vn}xlem kaeh$knch gnv |n}v Hahas dnwms xkvn}jk xkax avma% Xljkx
sraoms avm xljkxmv zlxk xkm xvmm lercaom0 as` Dnd lg kmv zkmmcokalv
oae dnwm xkvn}jk xkax sraom
zlxkn}x fvaeokms fv}sklej aovnsskmv gaom%
Lexmexlneac Aoxlwlx|% Zklcm dae|ng }s zn}ch cnwm xn kmav sndmnemsa| |n} i}sx slx aeh vmca{# xkls
da| enx fm xkm dmssajm gnv |n}vravmexs zkn da| acvmah| gmmc xkm|
avm en cnejmv }smg}c% Fm lexmexlne$ac le ehlej a dmaelejg}c onexvlf}$
xlne xkm| oae da`m vmcmwaex xn xkm
aoxlwlxlms jnlej ne le xkm kndm%
Xkls da| lewncwm accnzlej Dnd xn
kmcr |n} da`m sovaxok onn`lms vm$xmaoklej |n} as rmvkars skmhlh hmoahms ajn% Hah da| mein|vmahlej xkm Okvlsxdas sxnv| +zklok
|n}wm rvlexmh n}x le cavjm rvlex,fmgnvm xkm jlgx$jlwlej fmjles% As`
mlxkmv ng xkmd xn eadm a gawnvlxmoavnc aeh fm omvxale xn rca| lx gnv
xkmd%
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Okvlssa Daxxkmzs# DA# OOO.
_CR# ls a eaxlwm O_VA vmslhmexaeh xkm nzemv ng Ha|Fvma` Ah}cx
Oavm _mvwloms# Leo# Al`me# _O%
:mhemsha|# Enwmdfmv 6;# 6216
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Jmx }r%%%gvnd Rajm 1
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nems dleh% Wnc}exmmvlej axzkaxmwmv cmwmc ng ondgnvx accnzsgnv a okaeom xn m{xmeh n}vsmcwmsaeh gno}s ne nxkmvs% Fmslhms# lx}s}acc| gmmcs vmacc| jnnh!Neom a dnexk# ne a Dneha|dnvelej# xkmvm ls a smsslne gnvg}e aeh xn mejajm xkm dlehknsxmh f| Ymelxk _kavrm ax _x%Inkes ]DO% Lx ls nrme xn xkmondd}elx|# ng on}vsm% Ymelxkoaccs xkls gmccnzsklr xldm G}eDneha|% Fnf _kavrm acza|skmcrs `mmr xkmsm jaxkmvlejsjnlej# aeh xkmvm ls a hmcloln}shmssmvx aeh seao`s# as a g}vxkmvmexlomdmex%Ymelxk aeh Fnf vsx m{rmvlmeomhxkls x|rm ng memvjlylej g}e zkmexkm| inlemh nxkmvs ax _rvlej$dalh Fmaok gnv a smelnvs vm$xvmax% Fao` 1=$62 |mavs ajn# sl{ok}vok gvlmehs dahm xkm in}vem|%Enz# ?: smelnvs avm sokmh}cmhgnv xkls }rondlej smsslne gnv xkmvmxvmax% +Nrme xn nxkmvs9 oacc78;$7;
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Jmx }r%%%gvnd Rajm Da|fm xkax ls fmoa}smxkmsm jvaehravmexs acza|s kahsndmxklej jnlej ne9 srnvxs cl`m
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Oacmf ls a I}elnv ax _n}xk Al$`me Kljk _oknnc# knrlej gnv ae
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sxnem Onccmjm# aeh Ineaxkne#
_mm rajm 11
Zmhemsha|# Enwmdfmv 6;# 6216 11
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a Ocmdsne jvah# ls sx}h|lej le_ravxaef}vj avma# xn fm a oklvn$rvaoxnv%As clgmcnej cmavemvs xkmdsmcwms#Ymelxk aeh Fnf ravxlo}cavc|hmcljkx le xkmlv _}eha| _oknnc
jvn}r# aeh zlcc fvaj afn}x nemxklej fmslhms xkmlv jvaehoklc$hvme% Xkm| gmmc xkm| kah XKMFM_X XMAOKMV_ ng acc le xkmcavjm Gmccnzsklr Ocass# zklokFnf zas xkm Rvmslhmex ng ax nemxldm% Zkn avm xkmlv xmaokmvsjmemvaxlej s}ok ahdlvaxlne> Hv%Inke _xarcmxne# Hv% Fnf Klf$
favh# Vmwmvmeh Fnf Oc|f}ve#aeh _}rmv Wnc}exmmv Dav|@ns`|%Zkax jnms ne le _}ee| Dne$ha| smsslne m{aoxc|> Ymelxkrcaes gnv jadms# dae| ngvmoacc% _km ngxme rnsxs clsxs#sn xkax en axxmehmm emmh fmcldlxmh zlxk rvlex sdaccmv xkae
xkm| oae ondgnvxafc| vmah%Xkmsm jadms avm sndmxldms
jcmaemh gvnd dajaylems skmvmahs% Gnv m{adrcm# hlh |n}`enz knz d}ok maslmv lx ls xnvmdmdfmv hljlxs gnv a rkneme}dfmv# lg xkm| avm jvn}rmh>Cl`m 7$81$1 Ymelxk oaeenx mwme ldaj$
lem zk| skm ls ng lexmvmsx gnv xklssxnv|# as skm smms kmvsmcg asae|xklej f}x m{xvanvhleav|% Clgmxn kmv ls afn}x Hnlej acc xkmjnnh L oae hn# aeh q}lmxc| enxahwmvxlslej% L i}sx hn lx# aeh L hn
lx fmoa}sm L mein| lx% Fnf jaleskls smvmelx| n}xhnnvs# k}exlejaeh sklej aeh ondd}elejzlxk eax}vm% Xkm| fnxk cl`m xnjavhme# avm hnzerca| xkm en$xlne xkax xkm| avm vmacc| jnnh axlx% Fnf zn}ch ahdlx# Zm kawmsndmxklej xn max le lx dnsx ngxkm xldm# aeh zkax zm oaex }sm#
zm skavm zlxk nxkmvs nv xa`mxn xkm Gavdmvs Dav`mx% Fnfhnms kls nze |avh znv` sxlcc#leoc}hlej o}xxlej xkm jvass# zklcmYmelxk hnms kmv nze kn}smznv`# xkm nzmvs aeh kmcrsjavhme% Ymelxk sa|s# Zkax zmoaex hn# zm cmx jn% F}x# xknsmzkn `enz aeh ahdlvm _kavrms
xmcc ng xkm dae| xklejs xkm| ehxldm aeh memvj| xn hn gnv nxkmvs#
leoc}hlej rvnwlhlej aeh avvaej$lej vlhms# fvlejlej dmacs# v}e$elej mvvaehs +leoc}hlej rmxs aehwmx wlslxs# lg emmh fm,# ocmaelejnxkmv rmnrcms |avhs# sokmh}clejwnc}exmmvs xn kmcr gnv m{xmehmh
lccemssms aeh gnv fmvmawmdmexdmacs# znv`lej as wnc}exmmvsle xkm ok}vok `lxokme gnv _}ee|Dneha| zlxk Iaemx Zmvxysovmz# fmlej xkm gnvom fmkleh xkmWacmexlem C}eokmne gnv smelnvs%Xkm| avm q}lmxc| hnlej gnv nxk$mvs# zklcm rcmaslej Kld% Xkm|zn}ch fm xkm vsx xn xmcc |n} ng
sn dae| nxkmvs cl`m xkmd% Al`mels gnvx}eaxm% Zm acc enz xkax%Xkls dnexk# lg |n} kawm fmmexn}okmh f| xkmlv jmemvnslx|ng hmmh nv m{adrcm# |n} zlcc`enz zk| xkm| avm slejcmh n}xle a dnexk g}cc ng jlwlej xkae`s%_kavrms# zmcc eadmh!
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Xkm Dlsxa`ms Aee}lx| Nzemvs Da`mF| Ia| Fvnn`s
Aee}lxlms xmeh xn fm nem ng xkm
dnsx dls}ehmvsxnnh aeh }ehm$v}xlclymh msxaxm rcaeelej xnncsawalcafcm% Dnsx rmnrcm wlmzxkmd as j}avaexmmh leondmsxvmads gnv clgm# f}x xkm emzsx|cms ng aee}lxlms vmacc| nggmv snd}ok dnvm% Xkm `m| ls xn }ehmv$sxaeh zk| xkm r}vokasm ng ae ae$e}lx| on}ch fm xn |n}v ahwaexajmaeh zkme lx ls a rvnh}ox xn awnlh%
Xnn ngxme xkn}jk# L smm lehlwlh}$acs da`m xkm sadm dlsxa`ms%Fmeiadle Gvae`cle salh Aelewmsxdmex le `enzcmhjm lsKnrmg}cc| |n} oae rlo` }r a xlrkmvm xn rvmwmex xknsm dlsxa`msgvnd karrmelej xn |n}%
Dlsxa`m 19 Nzelej ae aee}lx|zkme |n} hlm%
Lx ls msxldaxmh xkax ;2- ng acc ae$e}lx| nzemvs rass aza| nzelejaee}lxlms zlxk xkm lexmexlne ng
cmawlej xkmd xn xkmlv cnwmh nems%H}m xn xkm xa{ xvmaxdmex ng ae$e}lxlms# xkmlv cnwmh nems meh }rra|lej nvhleav| leondm xa{ms nexkm lexmvmsx aoo}d}caxlne ng xkmlekmvlxmh aoon}ex% Cmxs cnn` axxkm gnccnzlej m{adrcms%M{adrcm A9 _acc| ls ajm :2 aehhmolhms xn cmawm kmv (122#222aee}lx| xn kmv `lhs fmoa}sm skm
hnms enx emmh xkm dnem| gnvleondm% _km ralh (=2#222 gnvxkm aee}lx| zkme lx zas nvljleacc|r}vokasmh% Ax hmaxk# kmv oklc$hvme vmomlwm xkm (122#222 f}xkawm xn ra| xa{ms ne xkm (=2#222znvxk ng aoo}d}caxmh lexmvmsx%
Ass}dlej a xa{ fvao`mx ng 6;-#xkm xa{ claflclx| zn}ch fm (18#222%M{adrcm F9 Lesxmah ng cmawlej
xkm aee}lx| xn kmv `lhs# _acc|hmolhms xn onewmvx xkm aee}lx|lexn a slejcm rvmdl}d zkncm clgm
les}vaeom rnclo| xkax rvnwlhms(1:;#222 XA[ GVMM xn kmv `lhszlxk en ahhlxlneac lewmsxdmexvmq}lvmh% Ax kmv rasslej# xkmoklchvme enz vmomlwm (1:;#222XA[ GVMM lesxmah ng (122#222ng zklok (=2#222 fmondms xa{$afcm%
Dlsxa`m 69 Galclej xn }rhaxm
|n}v fmemgolavlmsLx ls ovlxloac xn da`m omvxale xkax|n}v fmemolav| hmsljeaxlne lsonvvmox# sn xkax zkme |n} rassaza|# xkm rmnrcm zknd |n}lexmehmh xn cmawm |n}v aee}lx| xnaox}acc| vmomlwm xkm dnem|% Gnvm{adrcm# L zlcc clsx a on}rcm ng xkmdnsx onddne rvnfcmdaxlo fme$molav| hmsljeaxlne lss}ms%
1% Fm s}vm xn eadm onexlejmex nvsmonehav| fmemolavlms% Lg |n}v
rvldav| fmemolav| hlms zlxk |n}nv fmgnvm |n} aeh xkmvm ls en nxk$mv eadm clsxmh# xkm aoon}ex wac}mjmxs hlsxvlf}xmh f| xkm rvnfaxms|sxmd% Xkm ondrcmxmc| zvnejrmnrcm on}ch meh }r lekmvlxlejxkm aoon}ex le xkls oasm%
6% Aenxkmv rvnfcmd ondms zkmermnrcm galc xn okaejm xkmlv fme$
molavlms% _ndmxldms a clsxmhfmemolav| on}ch rvmhmomasmxkm aee}lx| nzemv% Dae| xldmsae aee}lx| nzemv zlcc clsx `lhs nvjvaeh`lhs as fmemolavlms# f}xgnvjmx xn ahh ahhlxlneac g}x}vmjvaehoklchvme zkn avm fnve nvahnrxmh# xkmvmf| }elexmexlneacc|hlslekmvlxlej xkmd%
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|# #
Onexle}mh gvnd rajm 16
Dlsxa`m ?9 Aee}lxlylej aWavlafcm aee}lx|
_n dae| rmnrcm xkax L dmmx zkn
o}vvmexc| nze a wavlafcm aee}$lx| hn enx g}cc| }ehmvsxaeh knz lxznv`s% Xkm| vmdmdfmv flxs aehrlmoms ng xkm onewmvsaxlne zlxkxkm rmvsne zkn snch lx xn xkmd f}xxkm| emwmv jvasr xkm vadloaxlnesng xkm rvnh}ox% Wavlafcm aee}l$
xlms ngxme jmx snch as a rvnh}oxxkax rvnh}oms a clgmxldm leondmsxvmad% Acxkn}jk xkls ls xv}m#xkmvm avm klhhme onsxs xn xklsoknlom% Neom a wavlafcm aee}$lx| jmxs aee}lxlymh# |n} kawm cnsx
|n}v vljkxs xn xkm rvleolrac% \n}oaeenx sxnr aeh sxavx xkm leondmnv okaejm |n}v dleh aeh sa| cmxdm kawm d| dnem| fao`% Hnlejxkls acsn dmaes xkax xkmvm ls enxk$lej cmgx gnv |n}v gadlc| xn lekmvlxsleom |n} jawm }r |n}v vljkxs xn
xkm aee}lx|%A {mh nv {mh lehm{mh aee}lx|#knzmwmv# accnzs |n} xn xa`m ae le$ondm gnv clgm zklcm cmawlej xkm ao$on}ex wac}m ax hmaxk xn a fmem$olav|% \n} oae acsn sxnr aeh sxavx
xkm leondm as emmhmh# ass}dlej|n} oknnsm a hmgmvvmh aee}lx|wmvs}s ae lddmhlaxm aee}lx|% Gnvg}vxkmv ocavloaxlne# rcmasm gmmcgvmm xn oacc xkm ngom%
Xkm lhmas xkax kawm fmme rvm$
smexmh kmvm avm i}sx a gmz ng xkmldrnvxaex aeh onddne aee}lx|dlsxa`ms aeh avm lexmehmh xn kmcr|n} sawm xkn}saehs ng zasxmhxa{ hnccavs# rass ne aoon}exs xncnwmh nems# aeh kawm rmaom ng
dleh% Lg |n} kawm oneomves afn}xae aee}lx| |n} r}vokasmh nv avmo}vvmexc| oneslhmvlej# rcmasm one$xaox }s gnv a xknvn}jk fvma`hnzeng ae| aeh acc q}msxlnes |n} da|kawm%
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F| Vln Jvaehm Hawm
Xn dm# @l`} Xnil +@m| onn Xnm jmm,
sn}ehs cl`m a karr| jn c}o`| Lxaclae
ocnze zknsm nec| inf ls xn fvlej sdlcms
xn |n}v gaom% _a| lx a gmz xldms aeh
|n}cc `leh ng smm zkax L dmae% Le
vmaclx|# xkls ls xkm eadm gnv ae aexlq}m
oadmccla +1;
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Aoahmd| ng Clgmcnej Cmavelej Oaxacnj ng On}vsms_rvlej 621? _mdmsxmv Iae}av| Da|Clsxmh fmcnz ls a onehmesmh hmsovlrxlne ng xkm
on}vmsms nggmvmh f| xkm Aoahmd| gnv xkm _rvlej
621? smdmsxmv% Xkm ondrcmxm oaxacnjs avm sokmh}cmh
xn fm lss}mh f| xkm meh ng Enwmdfmv aeh zlcc fm
awalcafcm ax xkm Al`me On}ex| Clfvav|# Al`me
Okadfmv ng Onddmvom# Omhav Ovmm` Ondd}elx|
Omexmv aeh ]_OA# F}slemss ' Mh}oaxlne Fchj#
vnnd 11?%Xkm onsx gnv nem smdmsxmv ls (:2 aeh nem
oae xa`m as da e| on}vsms as hmslvmh% _ndm on}vsms
da| fm sraom cldlxmh%
DA_XMVLEJ XKM DNHMVE_#
RAVX XZN
Haxm9 1 Dneha|# Iae}av| :
Xldm9 6922 r%d% 69=2 r%d%
Cnoaxlne9 K}daelxlms ' _nolac _olmeoms Fchj%# Vd%
12?
Mevnccdmex Cldlx9 1=2
CLWM GVND XKM DMX NRMVA
Haxm9 8 Dneha|s# Iae}av| 18# 6;#
Gmfv}av| 8# 11
Xldm9 11922 a%d% 169?2 r%d%
Cnoaxlne9 Rmecaeh Ahdlelsxvaxlne Fchj%#
Vd% 127
Mevnccdmex Cldlx9 1=2
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Haxm9 8 Dneha|s# Iae}av| 18# 6;#
Gmfv}av| 8# 11
Xldm9 1922 r%d% 19=2 r%d%
Cnoaxlne9 Rmecaeh Ahdlelsxvaxlne Fchj%#
Vd% 127
Mevnccdmex Cldlx9 1=2
LEXVNH]OXLNE XN XKM KNFF\ NG
DMXAC HMXMOXLEJ
Haxm9 6 X}msha|s# Iae}av| 1=# 66
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Al`me Rmvgnvdlej Avxs Jvn}r
+ARAJ, rvmsmexs xkm Al`me
rvmdlmv ng xkm Oavnclea Fvass
le xkm dnsx m{olxlej Okvlsxdas
oneomvx ng xkm smasne Oavn$
clea Fvass Okvlsxdas Rnrs
gnv nem rmvgnvdaeom nec| ne
Xk}vsha|# Hmomdfmv 1? ax ;922
r%d% ax xkm ]V_ Omexmv gnv xkmRmvgnvdlej Avxs ne Emzfmvv|
_xvmmx% D}slo# ca}jkxmv aeh
xkm srlvlx ng Okvlsxdas zlcc cc
xkm Oavnclea Fvass Okvlsxdas
Rnrs Oneomvx! Kmav xkls gaf}$
cn}s jvn}r rca| s}ok knclha|
gawnvlxms as Zklxm Okvlsxdas#
_cmljk Vlhm aeh F}jcmvs Kncl$
ha| acnej zlxk xvahlxlneac gawnv$lxms gvnd Kncc|znnh dnwlms
aeh Fvnahza| sknzs% \n} zlcc
fm dnwmh xn slej acnej zlxk
In| xn xkm Znvch aeh N Ondm
acc \m Galxkg}c% Cnwmh gnv xkmlv
ondfleaxlne ng wlvx}nslx| aeh
jnnh k}dnv# Oavnclea Fvass ls
a jvn}r ng lexmveaxlneacc| vm$
enzemh d}slolaes zlxk a vmrmv$
xnlvm meondrasslej mwmv|xklej
gvnd Vmealssaeom xn Flj Faeh#
aeh a dl{x}vm ng g}e$cnwlej aeh
ino}cav rmvsneaclxlms% Xkm| zlccszmmr |n} ngg |n}v gmmx aeh
cmawm a sdlcm ne |n}v gaom% Xkm
Fvass fvlejs a gvmsk arrvnaok
xn jvmax d}slo ng acc x|rms# me$
jajlej a}hlmeoms le a wlfvaex#
memvjmxlo aeh dmdnvafcm d}sl$
oac m{rmvlmeom% \n} avm j}avae$
xmmh xn cmawm xkls oneomvx ccmh
zlxk Okvlsxdas srlvlx!
OAVNCLEA FVA__
OKVL_XDA_ RNR_
kawm rmaom ng dleh `enzlej xkax xkmlv gadl$clms aeh oavmjlwmvs zlcc kawm xkm s}rrnvx ng
rvngmsslneacs zkn avm xvalemh xn ahdlelsxmvkljk$q}aclx| aeh ondrvmkmeslwm oavm%
HNEX FM AGVALH $ FM LEGNVDMHJmxxlej d| Hah xn knsrlom mavc| ls xkm fmsx
xklej zm mwmv hlh% Lx kas lehmmh m{xmehmh klsclgm aeh kas vmh}omh kls rale aeh ae{lmx| ld$dmas}vafc|# salh _x} @vmlsdae# a}xknv aehMdd| azavh$zleelej zvlxmv aeh rvnh}omv%L xknvn}jkc| vmonddmeh sxavxlej knsrlomoavm as snne as rnsslfcm% Lxs znvxk lx% L encnejmv gmav xkm znvh knsrlom% Le gaox# L oaex
j}vm n}x knz zm hlh zlxkn}x lx gnv sn cnej%Hnex fm agvalh% Fm legnvdmh%Gnv dnvm legnvdaxlne ne Eaxlneac Knsrlom
Dnexk# wlslx zzz%oavlejlegn%nvj% \n} oaeacsn eh legnvdaxlne ne Gaomfnn` ax zzz%gaomfnn`%ond.EaxlneacKnsrlomDnexk%
AL@ME ON]EX\Ax Knsrlom Oavm ng _n}xk Oavnclea n}v
jnac ls xn fvlej azavmemss xn ae }ehmv$smvwmhrnr}caxlne le n}v on}ex|% Da|nv Gvmh F%Oawaea}jk vmomexc| rvnocaldmh Enwmdfmv
Eaxlneac Knsrlom aeh Racclaxlwm Oavm Dnexkle xkm Olx| ng Al`me% Zm avm acsn knsxlej aKnsrlom 121 ondd}elx| azavmemss ocass En$wmdfmv 1?xk ax K% Nhmcc Zmm`s Omexmv gvnd
7rd ;rd%# rcmasm ondm n}x aeh inle }s%
Lg |n} emmh ae| g}vxkmv legnvdaxlne nv kawmq}msxlnes# rcmasm onexaox9 Dlokmccm Caemzlxk Knsrlom Oavm ng _n}xk Oavnclea ax Ng$gom9;2?$78
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_AH _masneac aggmoxlwm hlsnvhmvF| O|exkla Oaxxs# VH
Dae| ng d| oclmexs jale zmljkx nwmvxkm zlexmv dnexks fmoa}sm ng &_ma$
sneac aggmoxlwm hlsnvhmv& nv _AH% _AHnoo}vs h}vlej xkm onch# hav`mv dnexkszkme xkm ha|cljkx kn}vs avm vmh}omh%As zlxk nxkmv x|rms ng hmrvmsslne#_AH s}ggmvmvs gvmq}mexc| ovawm oavfn$k|hvaxms aeh }cxldaxmc| xa`m le dnvmoacnvlms% Xkls ls ngxme on}rcmh zlxkcmss m{mvolsm fmoa}sm lx*s xnn onchxn jncg# zac` le xkm emljkfnvknnh nvomvxalec| szld le xkm rnnc%
Xkm jnnh emzs ls xkax hmrvmsslne ngon}vsm ls kljkc| xvmaxafcm# aeh dae|ng xkm xvmaxdmexs xkax mcmwaxm dnnhoae acsn kmcr envdaclym maxlej kaflxsaeh gaolclxaxm zmljkx cnss mwme le xkmzlexmv! Lg |n} m{rmvlmeom sahemss xkaxonexle}ms gnv dnvm xkae a gmz zmm`s#nv lg |n} gmmc sn }ekarr| nv m{ka}sxmhxkax |n} oae*x jmx xkvn}jk |n}v ha| nv|n} oae*x jmx a zkncm eljkx*s scmmr#smm |n}v rk|slolae% E}dmvn}s dmhl$
oaxlnes oae hvadaxloacc| ldrvnwm knz|n} gmmc aeh g}eoxlne le as gmz as xzn
xn xkvmm zmm`s%Lg ne xkm nxkmv kaeh# |n} gmmc hnze gnvnec| a gmz ha|s nv a on}rcm ng zmm`s#xkme xkm gnccnzlej sxvaxmjlms da| kmcr
|n} fnxk gmmc fmxxmv aeh max fmxxmv#rvmwmexlej zlexmv zmljkx jale%9
DNWM!Lg |n}*vm hnze nv dlchc| hmrvmssmh#|n} da| gmmc cmxkavjlo% Xkm wmv|xkn}jkx ng jmxxlej n}x ng xkm kn}smda| smmd cl`m a k}jm nfsxaocm% F}xlg |n} oae ona{ |n}vsmcg xn dnwm$mwmegnv a gmz dle}xms# |n}v dnnh da|ldrvnwm% Vmsmavok oneslsxmexc| gehs
xkax mwme a clxxcm m{mvolsm mcmwaxmsdnnh% Aeh sleom rk|sloac aoxlwlx|f}ves oacnvlms aeh kmcrs vmj}caxm xkmknvdnems aeh em}vnokmdloacs xkaxleovmasm arrmxlxm# lx oae acsn okmo`ovawlejs% Aeh vmh}omh ovawlejs kmcr`mmr |n}v zmljkx onexvnc mggnvxs nexvao`%
Vmdmdfmv xkax a clxxcm aoxlwlx| fmaxsen aoxlwlx|% _n# lg |n} oae nec| dn$
xlwaxm |n}vsmcg xn zac` avn}eh xkmfcno`# zmcc# xkax*s a sxavx! Xv| fvma`$
lej hnze rk|sloac aoxlwlx| lexn sdacc}elxs% Xkvmm xme$dle}xm zac`s ahh }rxn xklvx| dle}xms ng m{mvolsm# aeh zlccfnnsx |n}v dnnh aeh hmovmasm |n}v
arrmxlxm as zmcc as f}ve oacnvlms%
Hn sndmxklej xn fnnsx |n}v smvn$xnele +|n}v &L gmmc jnnh& knvdnem,Gmmclejs ng sahemss aeh mwme ocleloachmrvmsslne oae sljeac xnn clxxcm rcma$s}vm le |n}v clgm% Xkm snc}xlne> Hnsndmxklej rcmas}vafcm mwmv| ha|% Lxhnmse*x kawm xn lewncwm a cnx ng m{$rmesm nv rcaeelej0 lx i}sx kas xn fmsndmxklej |n} mein| hnlej% Xa`lej
a faxk zlxk somexmh nlc aeh oaehcms#zaxoklej |n}v flvh gmmhmv# oacclej agvlmeh# aeh clsxmelej xn cnwmc| d}sloavm acc m{adrcms ng zkax da| ldrvnwm|n}v dnnh aeh hlsxvaox |n} gvnd gnnhax xkm sadm xldm%
Zvlxm |n}v gmmclejs hnze as zmcc aszkax |n}*vm maxlejVmsmavok sknzs xkax `mmrlej xvao`ng zkax |n} gmmc aeh max oae ldrvnwm
|n}v maxlej raxxmves% Jmx a sdaccenxmfnn` m{rvmssc| gnv xkls r}vrnsm
aeh zvlxm hnze knz |n} gmmc maok ha|acnej zlxk zkax |n} zmljk# zkax m{mv$olsm |n} avm hnlej aeh zkax |n} avmmaxlej% Vmwlmz lx ngxme xn vmonjelym
raxxmves% As |n} fmjle xn smm xkm one$emoxlne fmxzmme |n}v mdnxlnes aeh|n}v maxlej raxxmves# |n} da| sxavx xnjale onexvnc nwmv fnxk% D| oclmexs zknin}veac avm jmemvacc| s}vrvlsmh ax zkaxxkm| cmave afn}x xkmdsmcwms aeh avmxkme afcm xn jmx vmacc| srmolgo afn}xxkmlv znv` ng okaejlej kaflxs%
Zaxok zkax |n} maxHmrvmsslne aeh m{omsslwm ones}dr$
xlne ng s}jav# oaggmlem aeh aconknc hnenx dl{ zmcc% Acsn lx ls ldrnvxaex xnda`m s}vm |n} avm jmxxlej men}jkng xkm F wlxadles% A F$ Ondrcm{ zlccmes}vm xkax |n} hn%
Gnv dnvm legnvdaxlne afn}x awnlhlejzmljkx jale nwmv xkm zlexmv dnexks nvxn smx }r ae arrnlexdmex# O|ehl da|fm vmaokmh ax ;2?$786$
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Onexle}mh gvnd Rajm 1=
LEM XA_XLEJ EMZ \NV@ ZLEM_
Haxm9 X}msha|# Gmfv}av | 1