Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH

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Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPHEducation Consultants Norfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office

NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN

WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM

REPEATED INCIDENTS

BULLYING AND POWER

MAKES SOMEONE SAD OR AFRAID

RELATIONAL AGGRESSION

RUMORS

CYBER-BULLYING e-mail, blogs, Facebook

EVERYTHING IS PUBLIC

THE INTERNET

CAN’T CONTROL WHO SAVES OR FORWARDS YOUR PHOTOS,

VIDEO, TEXTS, EMAILS OR POSTS

APPS. | EASY ACCESS

PRIVACY SETTINGS

THINK BEFORE YOU POST

PHOTOS/VIDEOS/INFO.

PHOTOS OR VIDEOS

SEND OR FORWARDING INAPPROPRIATE

YES!ARE STUDENTS GETTING INTO TROUBLE?

• Suspension or being expelled from school• Losing positions of leadership• Not getting into future schools• Being denied scholarships or employment opportunities• Legal consequences• Marks on your permanent record

THE CONSEQUENCES

THINK ABOUT

BEING SAFE IN THE DIGITAL WORLD

DON’T RESPOND

REPORT ABUSE

TALK TO SOMEONE

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

RESPECT AND

A healthy relationship requires trust and honesty—asking someone to send a naked or inappropriate photo as a sign of “trust” is not healthy!

AND DISRESPECT

INAPPROPRIATE PHOTOS

• If a relationship ends, one person may spread the existing photos to other people to get back at the person who ended the relationship, or to blackmail the person who is trying to end the relationship.

• Someone may try to use cell phone contact to control the person they like and keep constant tabs on where they are, who they are with—this is not healthy or safe!

TEXTS OR REQUESTS FOR PHOTOS

RESPONDING TO INAPPROPRIATE

TRY A SERIOUS RESPONSE

• Stress your discomfort: “I’m way too uncomfortable

doing that.”• Emphasize feelings: “If you

really cared for me, you wouldn’t ask me to do that.”

• Change the subject: “Um let’s do something else, ok?”

• Call them out: “Nope, not gonna do anything illegal just to excite you.”

TRY A FUNNY RESPONSE

PLACES TO GET HELP

www.athinline.comwww.thatsnotcool.comwww.Loveisrespect.org

DOVE, local domestic violence agency www.dovema.org

Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPHEducation Consultants Norfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office

NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN

QUESTIONS?

Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH

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