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...“At least this Bugle’s in tune!”...
Making a
Difference Christmas is a time of real contrasts. For some it is a wonderful family time,
an opportunity to spend time with loved ones, share gifts and enjoy the fes-
tive atmosphere. Other people view the approach of Christmas with dread. It
can be a time when loneliness is felt most keenly, a time when the pressure
to buy can undermine the pleasure of giving.
In this issue we look at Christmas from many different viewpoints, but we
believe we can all make a difference, a positive difference, to people’s lives,
including our own, by doing simple things.
The
Bugle Winter 2009/10 Issue 17
W R I T T E N A N D P U T T O G E T H E R B Y T H E B E T H A N Y P R E S S T E A M
Wha' is my shepherd weel I ken
The Lord himsel' is he:
He leads me whaur the girse is green
An' burnies quiet that be.
Aft times I fain astray wad gang
An wann'r far awa':
He fin's me oot, he pits me richt
An' brings me hame an' a'.
Tho I pass through the gruesome
cleuch
Fin' I ken He is near:
His muckle crook will me defen'
Sae I ha'e nocht to fear.
Ilk comfort whilk a sheep could need
His thoghtfu' care provides:
Tho' wolves an' dogs may prowl aboot
In safety me He hides.
His guidness an' his mercy baith
Nae doot will bide wi' He -
While fallded on the fields o' time
Or o' eternity.
Verse chosen by Gerry McKenna
Written By John Moir
A partridge in a pear tree
Page 2
Betrayal by Ally Mitchell
I loved you so much, gave my all
Our life was good and I stood tall
You packed a bag and went away
I pleaded with you , please just stay
My words they fell on deaf ears
I felt lost and full of fears.
Why couldn’t you have stayed and
talked
You have no reasons, you just walked
My daughter, you took her away
I’ve never seen her to this day
I pray one day she’ll come my way
And with God’s grace she may stay?
Life goes on and heals with time
It felt good to know that you were
mine
Life has its ups and downs, that’s true
Now I’m no longer feeling blue.
A Heartbroken Dad
How we can all make
a difference
By Beth
Showing a good example, regardless, can cause people to
show themselves for what they really are. It can also ex-
pose the problems they have that make them behave in a
particular way.
When my brother was at secondary school he was shouted
at by a teacher for no reason. In fact, the teacher was so
angry with him that it did not seem she could calm down.
My brother then became angry and shouted back at the
teacher and got himself a detention. Even when my brother
got home he spoke to our mother about the situation with
anger. But my mother didn't just tell him to go back and
say sorry, but also to buy the teacher something nice as
well. My brother could not see the point in it and dis-
agreed, and after a long time my mother wore him down.
The next day my brother took a box of chocolates my
mother had bought, and went reluctantly to school. He
waited until the end of class, when all the other children
had left the room to make his move. He told the teacher
that he was sorry and presented the box of chocolates to
her. She was so touched that she thanked him more than
once which made my brother feel good.
One day my mother told my brother that she had spoken
to his teacher she was shocked at what she heard. The
teacher told her that she had a phone call some time be-
fore she gave my brother the detention, she was told that
there was a car crash in which her husband and child had
died. She was overwhelmed and could not concentrate on
doing her work properly and took it out on some students -
including my brother.
I told you this story to help you to understand how some
people take things out on others and regret it later. Maybe
someone you know has changed towards you, perhaps they
shouted at you for no reason and you shouted back. Maybe
some teacher at your school was more angry than usual and
shouted at you or gave you a detention. Maybe a relative,
or a parent at your child's school was seemingly angry
without a cause. Does it help when you treat them how
they treated you, or did you wonder what caused them to
be angry in the first place?
The Bible say "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a
harsh word stirs up anger" in the book of Proverbs chapter
15 verse 1 (Prov. 15:1). Have you ever thought that by an-
swering an angry person calmly takes away the edge, or the
rage of anger. Anger breeds anger as surely as violence
breeds violence. Rather, where there is fire you use water,
not fire, to put it out. You can cause a worse situation, or
make a bad situation worse by your retaliation. "A man of
knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of under-
standing is even-tempered", Proverbs 17:27. By acting ac-
cording to the above, you can start to gain greater under-
standing. You have already heard the phrase "practice
makes perfect" and we know that you can learn by experi-
ence, just as a scientist learns from doing experiments.
When you act with self-control, treating people how you
would like to be treated, by the outcome you will learn that
you have done the right thing.
Some people harden themselves on the outside when they
are really soft inside. It is the gentle and understanding
approach that often breaks that hard surface, getting to
the heart and causing them to share the problem, bringing
them that much closer to relief and a change in attitude.
It just takes someone who treats others well, even though
they might not have treated you well.
To put it another way, the nicer someone is the harder it is
for some people to keep being bad to them. When you show
yourself to be understanding and even-tempered, others
start to confide in you, when otherwise they might be the
same ones who treat you badly.
So, understanding that problems in life can make us act
differently towards others, we must also understand how
our character is built. Character is built strongest by per-
severance. The word persevere means to carry on in spite
of difficulties. But it is when we carry on in humility and
self-control that we build our character - this is true per-
severance! So one must realise that we need these trials,
these difficulties to strengthen ourselves. But when you
build your character, you must first have a solid foundation
to build on - like with anything that is built. This is where
the Bible comes in, for without these principles and guide-
lines it will be extremely difficult to build a good charac-
ter that will last.
This is how we understand the parable and proverb of the
foolish man who built his house on the sand and the wise
man who built his on the rock. When the storm came, the
house that was built on the week foundation (the sand) col-
lapsed, but the one built on the strong foundation (on the
rock) survived. If you want to build on a good foundation,
why not build according to the words of God in the Bible.
God gave us his words to live by because he loves us and
know that we will be sturdy and strong if we obey them. In
fact, just like that house built on the rock, we will be un-
shakable in the storm, unshakable in bad times - when
times are hard we will be strong enough to deal with it, and
not even be saddened by bad news.
Two turtle doves
Page 3
Why? Why do people start saying something?
Then spread it to someone else and
They carry on with that and everyone
Else believes those things, so why say it?
And spread it, why say it at all?
I Believe I believe in God and His word
I go by his word
I believe in His word
And most people
Should go by his word
By the Bible. By Sue
It could be lonely this Christmas.
Christmas for many can be a very lonely time of
year, while for others it‟s a happy, warm ec-
static time celebrating with family and friends.
At times like this while we are enjoying the
merriment and camaraderie we often forget
about others who are less fortunate, they may
be alone over Christmas, have no family and
friends and feeling very isolated.
Wouldn‟t be a wonderful gesture if we
gave a minutes thought to those people who are
feeling very vulnerable and maybe if you know of someone in this position , just
knock on their door , wish them a good Christmas and let them know you care, give
them a warm smile and if possible invite them for Christmas lunch.
Just a smile or a little card can often brighten someone‟s day and make a real dif-
ference to their lives knowing that someone cares.
There‟s a saying „A puppie‟s not just for Christmas‟, to let someone know you
care and are thinking about them is not just for
Christmas either, but it would be a start.
So start spreading a little happiness this Christ-
mas and make a real difference to some one‟s life.
There is no greater gift!’
By Ally Mitchell
Three French hens
Page 4
Christmas Alone Again
By Julie Ann Thomason
Having always been independent, I like living alone as I
find it difficult to share my space; I was surprised by my
reaction to having to do Christmas on my own. Last year
I returned home to Leith after more than two decades
living in La Rioja the wine region in North of Spain and
many of my Christmases and New Years had been spent
alone, though in many ways my Spanish Christmases had
always been lonely.
Christmas makes us feel safe.
Christmas is about tradition, and what we love about ritu-
als is the familiarity brought about by repetition, it
makes us feel safe.
Spending Christ-
mases in a foreign
country, though
loving Spain meant
I had no ritual to re-
peat, it was all new.
Spain respects the
Christian tradition
of giving presents on
Epiphany, the children getting excited by the three kings
the givers of presents, though I still prefer Santa Claus
because it‟s my custom. However the emphasis on both
Christmas and New Year days is on copious meals, hedon-
istic mid winter pagan feasts devoid of Christian Spirit,
suppers on the eves as well as the main meals.
Even though I set up my coping strategies treating my-
self to special goodies, a thick un-put down- able novel,
and not crossing the door, I always dreaded the run up.
Having come to love the atmosphere in the streets, in
the shops, nativity scenes more popular than trees and
after working in a primary school I had begun to recog-
nise Spanish Carols. Nevertheless it was always with
sadness that I wasn‟t able to complete the joy, sharing
the rituals by being with people.
Had someone suspected or guessed I was
one of the unwanted?
Then there were the questions, wasn‟t I going home,
where and who was I going to spend the festivities with.
Not wanting to admit that I was one of those, a nobody‟s
child, I brushed it off fearing I‟d be caught out at the
sight of my bare trolley not heaving with Christmas
booty for all in sundry. One year I ventured out to buy
bread some bakers open on Christmas morning and only
bought one stick. Arriving home having not seen or met
anyone I knew I heaved a sigh of relief, my secret was
safe.
The first Christmas I spent alone was 2001, I had played
about with the idea of coming home to Scotland, although
various offers were thrown around only one invite mate-
rialised, I spent Christmas Eve feeling really uncomfort-
able and was never invited back. The following Christmas
day I spent alone. The day dragged, I fretted while
hearing all the background sound effects of noise and
laughter coming from the neighbours‟ flats. Boxing Day
is a normal working day in Spain so it was with relief I
could return to normal. I was a bit more prepared for
New Year I faced the challenge in a more stoic manner.
As the twilight arrived I was overcome by relief, I‟d got
through it I had survived.
A significant element of the sharing of traditions
is being with people you love
Every year dropping subtle hints, the comments from the
teenage students reinforcing that I had gained freak
status, they didn‟t mind missing classes in the holidays it
was their parents who paid. Didn‟t anyone like me enough
to invite me? Why didn‟t I go home? And comments of
such ilk and then there was the odd invite, turning down
over pushy people and a few resulted in strained experi-
ences, defining the Spanish proverb It is better to be alone than badly accompanied. A significant element of
the sharing of traditions is being with people you love,
care about and want to be with.
Every year was accompanied by the sense of
failure
Yuletide proved to be a challenge always. I opted not to
travel home to Scotland, it is both an expensive and mis-
erable time to travel and being a self employed teacher
classes were still expected in the holidays. It was not
financially viable to be with my people. Every year was
accompanied by the sense of failure I was alone again,
inside it was okay it was being outside the sense of
shame and guilt of being on the outside the unloved the
unwanted.
Christmas this year will be lonely for other reasons as I
lost my father this year and it will be the first I spend
without both parents.
Four calling birds
Page 5
During one of my visits to the Edinburgh city
Mission I thought to myself what a great idea it
would be to write about one of the services that
they provide to people who are homeless, on low
benefits, or in supported accommodation, a basic
need such as food.
I asked Bill
Charmers who
runs this service
with an other
two people, Mar-
gret and Teresa
if it would be okay to write
about what a wonderful service they provide to
people like my self and how this is a life saver for
me and others. For some people in society food is
taken for granted, they will always eat and have
plenty. Unfortunately for others, this is a basic
need where without this people would starve.
There are two sites in Edinburgh one in the Leith
area on Thursdays and the other in Pilton on
Tuesdays. They provide food to 12 people in Leith
regularly for at least two months max, and will
look again at the person‟s circumstances after
this period.
The way it works is that people are referred by
statuary and voluntary organisations, I myself by
the Bethany Christen Trust. This is great that all
these agencies work and network together for
disadvantaged people in the Edinburgh commu-
nity.
The Basic Bank is not only a place that provides
food but is also a safe place and has a holistic
approach when dealing with the people who use it,
for you are made welcome as soon as you walk
through the door whereupon they provide tea,
coffee, biscuits, cakes, juice and toys for chil-
dren, as well as getting involved with play time
with your children while you talk with other users
and staff.
The thing I liked about the basic bank was they
have lots of information about various organisa-
tions, and also provide a counselling service, and
while you are there they offer a safe place
whereupon you are accepted by every body and
they listen to you and offer advice in an informal
manner {BLETHER}
The Basic Bank takes donations of food from
Churches, Fare share, also from schools, where
children are also educated about issues and the
crises that homeless people and low income peo-
ple face, and family need places like The Edin-
burgh City Mission. Bill goes into to schools to
talk with children and young people. {He said this
is great for they can learn about caring for other
folk}
This food that they provide not only has an im-
pact on the person collecting and using the ser-
vice but also reaches people‟s family and children
like a ripple of water.
I asked some of the users
how the Bank makes a differ-
ence to their life. One was
Michael Dueqemin. He said
“Cause it saves you money on
food. It gives you a bit of ex-
tra money to spend on other
things like bills and a bit for leisure and pleasure.
All the people who use this place are real nice and
friendly. I think it is a brilliant idea, as it‟s help-
ing people. “
A report by
Cha Maloney
Five golden rings
Page 6
Why I like going to the men’s group
When you walk into the acorn centre you get a warm
welcome
And you get something to eat and tea/ coffee.
And the staff are fan dab a dosey and very helpful and
considerate.
After the food and drink it is time to have fun and
games
Because there’s a pool table and table tennis and domi-
nos.
Games on the wii screen and Tim provides the quizzes.
It shows the men there’s more to life than drugs and
drink.
And not to down grade yourself, and to get yourself re-
spect back.
Plus I like to meet the guy’s who turn up to the acorn
centre
By Gordon Innes
The Men’s group meets every Thursday 1pm to 3pm at The
Acorn Centre in Junction Place
My life after my
heroin addiction
By Michael Chalmers
Well my life has changed dramatically, as now I am off
heroin. Since I have been off the heroin I have started
to get my life back. I am still on the methadone pro-
gramme but I‟m now able to get up every morning and not
think about where my next £10 was coming from, and
waking up rattling. That‟s really good, that I don‟t have
to worry bout where my next £10 is coming from. And
now I have a lot more money all the time to go and spend
on my daughter, so it‟s a lot better now. I now don‟t just
think of myself all the time. I now think of my family and
try to help people with things if I can without thinking of
getting money from them for doing it. I am now getting
on with my wee sister who never spoke to me for 9 years
because of my heroin addiction, but she is now talking to
me so it‟s all good! THE WORKS
By Alison
You’ll see Jesus….
When you do not cry alone,
You’ll see your Lord
In those who point to home.
You’ll see the Saviour
Come to ease the pain,
You’ll see your Lord
In those who help the lame.
Your Lord is in their patience
Their kindness, expressing love,
Your Gods in their compassion,
Gently building trust.
Jesus is in their knowing
Of all you have been through.
Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
Comforted them to comfort you.
Give everyone a smile
for Christmas!
Make a difference this Christmas..
by sending someone you have lost
contact with a nice Christmas card
and say “Happy Christmas” to strangers on
the street on Christmas Day!!
Six geese a laying
Page 7
Men’s Group Stirling Castle Trip
By Alexander Stone The air was damp and the sky was grey but Tim prom-
ised faithfully that it would brighten up. For the half
dozen or so souls that turned up, these were empty
words. Tim took the constant chiding in his stride as we
headed up through the cold & rain. Eventually he took
great pride in saying “I told you so” as it did brighten
up. This only added to an excellent day out and at the
knock down price of £2.
First stop we made was Bannock-
burn, scene of the famous battle in
1314 where Robert the Bruce led
his “army” to a historic victory over
the mighty English. I got a really
poignant feeling as I walked the
field imagining men hacking each
other to bits with claymores, axes,
hammers & pitchforks. Whether the cause they were
fighting for was worth it is a topic that‟s fiercely de-
bated up and down the land to this day.
We also used our stop here as a pit stop and as usual
Bethany provided an excellent range of quality food
generously provided by Fare Share.
The visitors centre was a fascinating place with many
displays of replica weapons, armour and clothing, which
you could try on. Also there were many graphic pictures
and written commentaries detailing the events of the
days leading up to the battle as well as the specifics of
the battle itself. I was getting deeply engrossed in the
history but sadly time was against us as we pressed on
towards Stirling castle.
During a long and bloody history Stirling Castle has
been attacked or besieged at least 16 times. Three
battles have been fought in its immediate vicinity, two
of which were turning points in Scottish history: and a
fourth equally important battle took place just a few
miles to the north.
Approaching the castle, there are many historic build-
ings and the men expressed a strong interest in visiting
some of them. Again Tim showed his depth of historic
knowledge with his constant narratives but time con-
straints kept us from these intriguing places. From
these narrations, I learnt there was a connection be-
tween the battlefield and the castle; and I knew they
didn‟t have firearms in 1314, so I was surprised when I
saw a statue of a soldier carrying a rifle at the en-
trance to the castle. Then I noticed the ramparts were
fortified with cannons so I decided to investigate this
aspect further.
The main parts of the castle include the chapel (closed
for refurbishment), palace, museum, great hall with
many anterooms, tapestry room, kitchens, gardens and
soldiers quarters with weapons store and gunpowder
room. A fact I discovered was the castle is regimental
headquarters for The 1st battalion of the Argyle &
Southern Highlanders and the statue outside is a trib-
ute to their men who have been lost in various con-
flicts.
The cannons were added and
increased in number at vari-
ous times in the 16th century.
James 4th built batteries but
by the time they were fin-
ished they were already proved to be inadequate. Mary
de Guise, widow of James 5th and mother of the more
famous “Mary queen of Scots”, built more elaborate
batteries in 1559. This includes the French Spur, some
of which still stands today. I found a couple of obscure
things that really intrigued me.
Firstly, a small door through the ramparts at the rear
of the castle, which was presumed to have been an exit
for the king to reach his hunting grounds. This I
thought was a potential “Achilles heel” and was rightly
blocked up around the time of the Jacobite activity.
My favourite discovery was made when I was in the
guardhouse cells. I closed the door and on the back
were a lot of names, initials and length of sentence
served, carved in the wood, but I‟m a bit sceptical
about their authenticity.
Having spent too much time on the
peripherals, we had little time left
to spend on the main features. I
found the architecture and engi-
neering of the place truly fasci-
nating and I feel inspired to re-
turn in the future. I would highly recommend a visit
here to all native Scotsmen and foreign tourists alike.
We also had a brief stop at Linlithgow Palace, another
place steeped in history. Within the grounds stands a
church that dates from the 1200s and is still used to-
day by the local parish. Our wise & trusted guide
pointed out pockmarks in the ancient stonewalls of the
palace. These were reputedly caused when Oliver Crom-
wall‟s men lined up and shot anybody who was a traitor
to his cause.
I found the trip highly rewarding and it has kindled in
me a desire to find out more about our beautiful coun-
try that we so often take for granted. Historic Scot-
land has an excellent web site where you can find out
more about all the places we visited on this trip.
Seven swans a- swimming
Page 8
Here far from the chill winds
of Scotland’s capital seat
Dry dust and waiting death to
meet
Thoughts of family and that
grey Scottish sky
Wondering if I will be the next
to die
To do my duty as best I can
To protect my mates in this
foreign land
The guilt I felt as we laid you
to rest
I couldn’t save you mate, but I
tried my best
Now for you there’s no fear
or dread
You need not worry where you
tread
Unlike us who’re left, with gun
in hand
Wondering who will next hit
the sand
This war, for most, is far
away
But for us squaddies it’s our
every day
We don’t complain, we heed
the call
Please don’t forget us if we
fall.
Sent to us by a soldier serving in
Afghanistan.
Remembering British troops in Helmand, Afghanistan.
Photograph: Lewis Whyld/PA
Fishing in The Tweed
By Chris Smith
I think the best place to go fishing is the river Tweed, as there
are a lot of trout and salmon in it. That is where I went fishing.
The biggest catch was an 8 1/2 pound trout and 6 1/5 pound
salmon, but my pal has caught bigger ones from that river.
The best way to catch fish in the river is by fly fishing and my
dad showed me how to make my own flies. I had boxes of his
flies, but over the years I don‟t know where they have gone.
I like to get right into the midst of the river as I think it is
better to fish from. I have fished in all weathers.
One time, one of my pal went fishing with me and we were in
the middle of the river, but there were hidden deep bits in the
river and the next time I looked at him he was up to his neck!
He had fallen into one of the pools and his rod was going down
the river without him!! So I left him and got the rod. It was
the funniest thing I‟ve seen, the look on his face was priceless!
I will try to find some of the flies me and my dad made, and
also see if I can find the tools you need to make them, as it is
good to make your own flies. It‟s good to catch a fish with a fly
you have made yourself and not one you have bought in a shop
I went fishing with my uncle on loch in a boat, it was good too,
but I prefer to fish in the rivers.
Eight maids a-milking
As the morning wakes
And the time ticks by
Through the clouds the sun breaks
Lightning up the sky.
There’s all the hustle and bustle
Out on the street
As the people walk past first part of a poem
On their way to work and meet By Steven Gibson
Ally’s Fashion Column
Page 9
How to get that glam festive party look on a tight budget.
The party season is almost upon us and what to wear this Christmas, be it night out, dinner etc, can be a real dilemma, so here is Ally’s fashion fix to ensure your Christmas is all you wish for.
Whether you want the current season’s themes such as animal prints, sequins, or plenty of glitter there is lot’s about to choose from, and chunky jewellery is everywhere.
You may wish to go for the Rock Glamour Look, choose a festive version of the biker look which offers more of an edgy chic look, black gold lurex tops, black leggings, chunky long neck-laces can look very sexy, the ultimate rock chick!
Perhaps you’d prefer the sparkling 20’s look, the flapper style dress but brought bang up to date coordinated with coloured tights, which are very much in vogue this it’s back to the fu-ture girls, you’ll get a real blast from the past wearing this outfit.
Finally if you’d prefer a class act look then you can’t go wrong with the L.b.d. The little black dress which will allow you to create a variety of looks, so check out your high street shops it’s all out there girls!!
Happy Hunting and have yourselves a very Merry Christmas and a cool YULE.
BEST WISHES Vintage Ally.
How I Have Helped To
Make A Difference
By Shaá
In India there are many impoverished fami-
lies who need medical attention, but cannot
get the medical help they so desperately
need. Among these are children who have
cleft palate or cleft lips. Although normally
in the UK the operation needed to correct a
cleft lip would be done shortly after birth, in
India there is such poverty that children of-
ten grow with the problem.
A charity called Opereation Smile has been
raising money for these operations, but the
children still need clothing to wear whilst in
hospital. At my school we have been provid-
ing t-shirts and decorating them with our
own designs, making them presentable for
the children to enjoy wearing - as the hosp-
tals cannot afford dressing gowns for all the
children. All the efforts of all involved go
together to make many children and families
happy - I am just so happy to help another
child to smile by my small, but important
role.
I just wish that more people would get in-
volved in things like this. Even the smallest
contribution can make a difference as long
as the numbers of those who contribute are
many. In this world today there are many
problems that cannot be avoided, but with
the efforts of the multitude at least we can
deal with those problems that can easily be
solved - it just takes a little compassion and
love for others.
Nine ladies dancing
Make a difference this Christmas and
buy two Big Issues and give one away!
Page 10
Christmas Day?
No more Christmases
for my family The mother of an off duty soldier stabbed to
death in the street has asked us to print her
victim statement in the hope that others may
understand the true cost of such acts of vio-
lence. Her son was stabbed by a complete
stranger while walking along the street. The
murderer wanted to kill someone, and it just
happened to be her son.
How can I tell you what this murder has done to us? How can I bear to face the reality that my first born son has been murdered by a stranger for no apparent reason?
It is unbearable
We spend our days avoiding this truth because it is unbearable. We tried to organise a beautiful and moving funeral which will celebrate his life, his kindness, his friendship, his sense of fun, his stub-bornness, courage and beauty. To say our heart-broken farewell to our son and brother.
We are comforted and appreciative of the love and support we receive from family and friends. We hold each other tight and try to be strong for each other. We remember the good times and share our memories. We plan to do good work in his name. Every day we shed tears for him. But even-tually we have to go to bed.
I hug his photograph
For me, the worst time is waking up. I begin to wake and realise that my eldest son is dead, no longer in this world, and I try to sink back into sleep. My heart thumps, I feel that my insides have been scraped out, my throat is raw with un-voiced screaming, my face is wet with silent tears, my heart is full of despair and fear and I wish I didn't have to get up and go on, I wish that I could abandon life and go wherever he is. I hug his pho-
tograph – the photograph of my sons which I looked at each night before sleep, thanking the universe that they were both healthy and safe – it does not bring comfort. He is gone. He'll never be able to come back. He will never come home again.
I'll never hear his key in the lock, his light swift footsteps, his laughter or his beautiful voice. He'll never tell me how his life is going, his hopes and dreams. We'll never argue. I'll never cook his fa-vourite foods or taste his special pasta sauce. He'll never put his arm around me and give me his cheeky grin as he teases me. I'll never hug him tight and tell him I love him before he leaves home again. Christmas Day? No more Christmases for me.
Fear
His younger brother is an only child now. He does-n't have his brother to share his life with, to grow old with, to support each other when his Dad and I have passed on.
We have all been robbed, our hearts broken, our souls battered and bruised. This loss will be with us forever. will never live another day. My son was willing to give his life for his comrades in both just and unjust conflicts and in international peace keeping. That he should be murdered so brutally by a stranger, for no reason, puts fear into everyone.
My son’s ashes are buried at Tolsta on the Isle of Lewis, where his grandparents lie.
Ten lord‟s a-leaping
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His death has affected so many people and I have a hole in our family, which can never be re-paired. Our extended families, friends, col-leagues, his friends and colleagues in the army (who are his second family), the young people who witnessed the attack and their friends and families have all been affected too. No-one's life is the same. No one feels quite as safe, quite as confident in human decency.
We read about violence everyday in the news, we see so much on TV both as news and as drama and we think nothing of it – this has be-come normal prime time “entertainment”. To have it happen in real life to one of the people I love most in this world makes me feel half dead. This feeling will be with me for the rest of my days, part of my life will always be missing.
No thought or compassion
The murderer by rights should not have been living unsupervised in society. He planned his at-tack but the victim was arbitrary – a soldier for preference ,but if they had all left it could well have been a member of the general public. He had no thought or compassion for my son, for the young people who witnessed the attack, for the friends and family of all ages who would be shocked by this pointless murder. And his assis-tant was equally cold and callous in aiding and abetting.
I have always tried to understand people, to see the best in them and to believe in them. I know that some people have terrible childhoods and my work is about giving people second chances, better opportunities. However there are some people who are so out of touch with their hu-manity that they cannot be given a second chance because they have absolutely no respect for other human beings. These people are a dan-ger to everyone because they have no regard for other people nor for the norms of society. This murder was both planned and random. I believe such men should not be allowed back into society….and I mean ever.
Make a difference this Christmas by say-
ing I love you to those you love. You
might think they already know it, but it can
never be said too much when it’s heartfelt. Alan
Eleven pipers piping
Above is a poster sent in by a reader. It adver-
tises The Treasure Trove shop in Castle Street.
She told us that it is a charitable endeavour in
which people can place their work for sale, helping
people to supplement their income by the sale of
hand crafts. We are pleased to advertise this and
would encourage readers to go and check it out!!!!
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George Whitefield
By Eric Scott
George Whitefield is widely known as
the greatest evangelist the world has ever known.
His remit was to bring the gospel to the
“unregenerate”, both here and in the United States
of America, which at that time was in its infancy
spiritually. Although slight in stature he had a voice
as of an angel and could be heard a mile away at sea. Converted in 1735 he
was a Calvinist and preached on the new birth extensively. On the strength
of this he was made aware of the awakening here in Scotland and arrived
here on the 6th July 1741 and immediately the work got underway with lec-
tures taking place at 7am and preaching twice a day, as well as private sit-
tings after 12pm.
This went on for some six weeks, then he went to Cambuslang at the re-
quest of the minister there, William McCulloch .Whitefield preached to a
captive audience three times a day in the open air regardless of the
weather, and the crowds were in the order of some 20 thousand. He wrote
to his wife saying ,”the awakening here is greater than ever, never have I
seen so many bibles and people looking into them”.
He returned the following year and once again began his ministry preaching
this time to the order of 50,000 in what became known as the Cambuslang
Revival, where hundreds if not thousands were converted, would to God we
could see those days again .
Bridge Project in Leven
By Gerry McKenna
We will be taking out people on excursions so they can learn
how to load a camera& work a camcorder because we will also
be doing cinema. They will be finding out about the local his-
tory of the places they are visiting. The different cultures of
the different towns we visit. We may have to visit the local
tourist visitor centre or board.
So come along! We meet 11am on Fridays at Cornerstone café in Leven.
CHRISTIAN By Alison
In the light of God’s mercy
In His humbling love,
Sinners are precious
To the Lord of great worth.
With eternal eye’s given,
Sight beyond death,
Our wants are but vain,
Our life’s but a breath.
So we reach out beyond
Every trial and pain,
We reach out to you…
To know Christ is your gain.
Freely received,
Freely we give,
In the light of God’s Mercy…
In God’s Mercy……We live.
Twelve drummers drumming
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“I Continue”
By Graham Adamson
Graham is a member of the Bu-
gle team and attends the Men’s Group. He is
a chef but he had to give that up as he de-
veloped Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Here he gives
some background on his condition.
MS is caused by bad signals being sent to the
brain through the nervous system to certain
parts of the body. Though I was quite late being
diagnosed, being forty, normally this occurs when
the patient is in their mid twenties. I do not be-
lieve that things have taken their course at a
fitting pace.
first attack
I had my first attack at about the same time my
parents had their strokes and I thought that I
was having mini-strokes, as they vanished as
quickly as they arrived. I now know that it was
Multiple Sclerosis, or MS. Having been diag-
nosed, it wasn‟t until I had more attacks that I
realised that the kitchen wasn‟t the place from
me, and I soon stopped. So now I put my efforts
elsewhere. So now I use my head, as the signals
don‟t go properly to the desired limbs, or ex-
tremities. Because of MS I become frustrated
as I can no longer do things that I had taken for
granted previously. However, I continue, as any-
one with MS.
HB and MS
I have had chemo-therapy, which was not li-
censed for use on mainland Britain at the time.
However, I was on the Isle of man, where it was
available. My consultant neurologist, Dr Bogild,
came from The Walton Centre, Liverpool. I now
have a referral to a neurologist, Dr Weller, at
the Western General Hospital. Though I did not
get any benefit from the chamber or the chemo-
therapy, it does not follow that everybody is the
same. You have to give everything a try, as there
is no cure, you do learn to live with what you
have. If anything is discovered, perhaps there
may even be a cure.
I have a son, David. I only hope that MS is some-
thing that I haven‟t given him genetically. I can
only hope that a cure is found, and it may be pre-
vented. There are also other illnesses that can
be treated this way, like autism and cancer and
some other brain disorders.
Inherited
However, these can be treated hyper-barically
under the discursion of the management of the
MS treatment centre, but some centres have
more need for the treatment of MS. Is it possi-
ble to treat Alzheimer's this way? MS, I now
believe, is inherited, as two of my grandparents
also had MS (My mother‟s father and my fa-
ther‟s mother.)
What I have is in the form of relapse and remit-
ting. However, there are a recognised thirty-six
different variations of this disease, as I believe.
Is there a way to stop this or prevent MS much
earlier? Is there a dietary clue, as MS is a very
Scottish illness? Why is the chamber closing
down on the Isle of man, or is that just rumour?
Very strange, as hyper-baric treatment is very
good for motorcycle injuries.
Do not give up
Maybe a preventive cure can be found. Hope is
something we are all capable of, so be it.
Thoughts are a very personal commodity. But,
sharing them happens to be a choice that you
alone can make. And, sometimes, you may find it
a lot easier to write them down. It can be bet-
ter, for you, to release your feelings in an appro-
priate manner, any way that you find possible.
Just let it out! Though it may take time, do not
give up. A valve exists, persevere and you shall
discover this.
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The Decline of
Scottish Rugby
Although my favourite sport is football,
I am very focused about rugby. I was
born in Peebles in the Borders, the
heart of Scottish rugby.
When professionalism came in a few
years ago, it ruined Scotland as a
world class nation. Scotland can boast
of world class players who also toured
with the British Lions. To name a few
Scots—Andy Irvine, Mighty Mouse (Ian
Hamilton), Gavin Hastings, the late
Gordon Brown. Another great player
was my old school mate, Tom Smith,
who played for Gala.
The school we went to was MacMerry
Primary and to Ross High School in
Tranent. Not only has professionalism
harmed Scottish rugby, it has harmed
British rugby as well. No more great
Welsh team.
By Bobby McLean.
Listen to Bobby’s weekly sports round up on Leith FM on Mondays at 2pm
Religious Symbols Of The Twelve Days of
Christmas
By Douglas Forbes
The Love refers To God
Turtle Doves refers To the Old and New Testaments
French Hens refers to Faith hope and Charity the
Theological virtues
Calling Birds refers to the Four Gospels and /or the
Four Evangelists
Golden Rings refers to the first Five Books of the Old
Testament, the Pentateuch which give man‟s fall
from grace
Geese A- Lying refers to the six days of creation
Swans A –swimming refers to the seven gifts of the
Holy Spirit the seven sacraments
Maids A-milking refers to the eight beatitudes
Ladies Dancing refers to the Fruits of the Holy Spirit
Lords a leaping refers to the ten commandments
Pipers Piping refers to the eleven faithful apostles
Drummers Drumming refers to the twelve points of
doctrine in the Apostles Creed.
Crisis has been ever
present in my life over
the last 3 years without
taking it over, enhancing
relationships and helping
me gain respect again.
The whole ethos behind
Crisis has permeated
through so many aspects
of my life over the last
3 years that since win-
ning the long service I
am now trying to use what little influence I have
among several service providers to set up some
sort of out of addiction/into work programme.
Recovery from addiction should not be a long pe-
riod of time doing nothing but should be seen as
an opportunity to learn new skills, try out other
work options, retrain in fact do anything to get
ready for re-entering the employment market.
By Alastair Kirkhope
The true spirit of Christmas is not
Santa and giving presents, but cele-
brating the birth of our Lord Jesus
Christ, our saviour. Only through Him will we get
the best present of all.. Heaven! Gordon Cameron
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Hope at Christmas in the
trenches in 1914
By Eddie Klimek
The First World War began in August 1914 and
was greeted with enthusiasm and optimism by the
great powers. All felt such patriotism and unity;
here in Britain we were saying “it'll all be over by
Christmas”. Little did they know that this would
be the first of four Christmases. It was to be a
long, bitter and bloody affair. Yet amidst the
fierce fighting and the extremes of weather, liv-
ing conditions and daily trials, there gleamed
hope.
In the Lancashire Bolton Chronicle of 2nd January
1915, appeared the following letter (shortened
here due to space restrictions) which shows that
even in war and struggle there is room for good-
will:-
“ Dear Everybody - Many thanks for the parcel of tobacco and pipe we had on Christmas Day. Things are very quiet in our part of the line. On Christmas Day there wasn't a single shot fired - a kind of truce was declared. By means of a megaphone one of our officers wished the Ger-man in the opposite trench a merry Christmas.
They returned the compliment and added that any of the troops who wished to visit them in their trenches were at liberty to do so. Several of our chaps accepted the invitation and were well received. The Germans were not allowed into our trenches but a German officer asked permis-sion to visit the grave of a brother officer which was situated well within our lines and on the out-skirts of a town now in our possession. Permission was given and the officer was led blindfolded through our lines to the graveside. He stayed here a little while, then the bandage was put over his eyes and he was taken to his own lines. In the afternoon there was a football match played be-yond the trenches, right in full view of the en-emy. The German officers wanted British news-papers, and we gave them a pile of old ones. They kept the truce honourably, and ended the day with German carols. Everyone spent a jolly day under the circumstances. It hardly seems possi-ble for such a thing to happen - deadly enemies to go forth and meet each other with all goodwill and then return to the trenches and shoot the first man who showed himself. I suppose it is one of the mysteries of human nature. May I thank you all again for your kindness. Best of luck for 1915. "
Letters like the above then appeared in many UK
local newspapers, eg the Oban Times, and in Ab-
erdeen.
I wonder how our boys out in Afghanistan will be
spending their Christmas?
Thanks to Bethany for the trips on Fridays to all the great places. Happy Christmas. Lisa
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FAREWELL TO the OLD YEAR
Farewell old year, with all the faults thou bast,
In sorrow we commit thee to the Past!
Whilst thou art sinking down her deep, dim slope,
We leave thee not in anger, but in hope;
So get thee gone! nor plague nor menace more;
Thy daughter, decked in smiles, is knocking at our
door.
[ last 6 stanzas of a poem by William Billington from Lancashire, writ-
ten in 1880, chosen by Eddie Klimek]