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Greetings and Prayer
Reader:
When we reach lifes greatest crossroads, the choice of the decision we make must be done with
much faith and love. My dear friends, WENDELL & IVY have approached these crossroadsalready with a lot of faith and a deeply nurtured friendship and love.
Let us then offer our thanks to God for having led them together in this love. Let us pray that He
may bless and consecrate their commitment to each other and that WENDELL & IVY mayfreely and lovingly take upon them the task the Lord has entrusted to them, to live for each other
and their future children, their family, their relatives and friends on their road through life toGod. Let this day be memorable for all of us for the Lord have given us the blessing in
witnessing this.
ProcessionalGentlemen march with ladies at their left in the following order:
BEST MANMr. Donald Sabandeja
PARENTS OF THE GROOMMrs. Pilar Auman & Mr. Nicolas Auman
GROOMMr. Wendell Auman
PRINCIPAL SPONSORS
Mrs. Rita Malagar & Mr. Modesto JordanaDr. Ma. Janet Porcia & Mr. James ChapmanMrs. Cecilia Blahut & Engr. Frederick Chiong
Mrs. Leonila Famador & Mr. Erlito VelasquezCANDLE, VEIL & CORD SPONSORS
Mrs. Auman & Mr. AumanMs. Diana Auman & Mr. Benjamin Auman
Ms. Rowena Vercide & Mr. Romeo SenoBRIDESMAIDS AND GROOMSMEN
Ms. Karen Remedio & Mr. Heinz York MolijonMs. Evangeline Auman & Mr. Kent Hayden Molijon
Ms. Sheila Auman & Mr. Rex DoncilloRING, COIN & BIBLE BEARERS
Master Arnold OchoaMaster Daniel Gabriel Seno
Master Vance Sidney MolijonFLOWER GIRLS
Mistress Alllison AumanMistress Angela Christine Go
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Mistress Patricia PorciaMATRON OF HONOR
Ms. Sarah VercidePARENTS OF THE BRIDE
Dr. Heidi Doncillo-Centenera & Mr. Gabriel Centenera
BRIDEMs. Ivy DoncilloOFFICIATING PRIEST
Rev. Fr. Patrick Joseph Martin, C.Ss.R.
END OF PROCESSION
Introductory Rites
Everyone rise as the choir sings.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Glory and Praise to Our God
Glory and praise to our God,Who alone gives light to our days.Many are the blessings He bears,
To those who trust in His ways.
We, the daughters and sons of Him,Who built the valleys and plains.
Praise the wonders our God has done,In every heart that sings.
Glory and praise to our God,
Who alone gives light to our days.Many are the blessings He bears,
To those who trust in His ways.
Priest:
In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
All:
Amen.
This is the part where the priest starts the introductory rites in his own personl words.
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Priest:
May the grace and the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of theHoly Spirit be with you always.
All:
And also with you.
Priest:
My brothers and sisters we prepare ourselves to celebrate this Sacred Mysteries, let us call tomind our sins.
All:
I confess to Almighty God, and to you my brothers and sisters, that I have sinned through myown faults, in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done and in what I have failed to do.
And I ask the Blessed Mary, ever Virgin, all the angels and saints and to you my brothers andsisters to pray for me to the Lord, our God.
Priest:
May Almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins and bring us to everlasting life.
All:
Amen.
Priest:
May Almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins and bring us to everlasting life.
All:
Amen.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Lord Have Mercy
Lord, have mercy. Lord, have mercy.
Christ, have mercy. Christ, have mercy.Lord, have mercy. Lord, have mercy.
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Priest:
Let us pray.
Almighty God, hear our prayers for WENDELL & IVY who have come here today to be united
in the Sacrament of Marriage. Increase their faith in You and each other, and through them blessYour Church (with Christian children). We ask this through Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, wholives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God forever and ever.
All:
Amen.
Everyone sits down and remains seated until the Second Reading.
Liturgy Of The Word
First Reading
Reader:
A reading from the Song of Songs
Hark! My lover! Here he comes springing across the mountains, leaping across the hills. Mylover is like a gazelle or a young stag. Here he stands behind our wall, gazing through the
window, peering through the lattices. My lover speaks; he says to me Arise my beloved, mybeautiful one and come! O my love in the clefts of the rocks, in the secret recesses of the clift.
Let me see you, let me hear your voice, for your voice is sweet and you are lovely. My loverbelongs to me and I to Him. He said to me, Set me as a seal in your heart, as a seal on your arm,
for storm as death is love, relentless as the netherworld as devotion, its flames are a blazing fire.Deep waters cannot quench love nor flood sweep it away.
This is the Word of the Lord.
All:
Thanks be to God.
Responsorial Psalm
Psalmist:
Let our response be: I will bless the Lord at all times. (Please repeat)
All:
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I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES.
Psalmist:
I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall ever be in my mouth. My soul will glorify in the
Lord that the poor may hear and be glad.
All:
I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES.
Psalmist:
Glorify the Lord with me; let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord and he answered me
and delivered me from all my fears.
All:
I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES.
Psalmist:
Look to God that you may be radiant with joy, and your faces may mot blush with shame. When
the afflicted man called out, the Lord heard, and from all his distress He saved him.
All:
I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES.
Psalmist:
The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him and delivers them. Taste and see how
good the Lord is, happy the man who takes refuge in Him.
All:
I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES.
Second Reading
Reader
A reading from the first letter of St. Paul to the Corinthians.
Set your hearts on the greater gifts. I will show you the way which surpasses all the others. If Ispeak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, my speech is no more than
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a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and with full knowledge,comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains but have no love, I am
nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, buthave not loved, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on sins, it is not snobbish. Loveis never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger, and neither does it brood overinjuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong, but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to
loves forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure. Love never fails.
This is the Word of the Lord.
All:
Thanks be to God.
Reader:
Let us pray. Please rise to honor the Holy Gospel.
Everyone rise for the reading of the Holy Gospel.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Thy Word
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet
And a light unto my path.Thy word is a lamp unto my feet
And a light unto my path.You're the light unto my path.
Reading of the Holy Gospel
Priest:
The Lord be with you.
All:
And also with you.
Priest:
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A reading from the Holy Gospel according to St. John.
All:
Glory to you Lord Jesus Christ!
Priest:
Jesus said to His disciples, As the father has loved me, so I have loved you. Live on with my
love. You will live in my love if you keep my commandments, even as I have kept my Fatherscommandments and live in His love. All this I tell you so that my joy maybe yours and your joy
maybe complete. This is my commandment; love one another as I have loved you.
This is the Gospel of the Lord.
All:
Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ!
Homily
Everyone sits down while priest delivers his Homily.
Rites of Marriage
Allocution
After the Homily, the Principal Sponsors and the priest will stand. The priest addresses the
couple. All the rest may remain seated.
Priest:
Dearly beloved WENDELL & IVY, you are here today to seal your love with an eternal bond
before the Church. I assure you of the prayers of our community that God may pour Hisabundant blessings on your love and help you to carry out the duties of marriage state.
And you, dear brothers and sisters, may I ask you to help them with your prayers and accept
them as a new couple in our Christian Community.
Scrutiny
Priest:
WENDELL & IVY, may I now ask you to answer truthfully the following questions.
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IVY, did you come here today in your own free will to bind yourself forever in love and serviceof your husband?
Ivy:
Yes, Father.
Priest:
WENDELL, did you come here today in your own free will to bind yourself forever in love andservice of your wife?
Wendell:
Yes, Father.
Priest:
WENDELL & IVY, are you ready to raise as good Christians the children whom God will giveyou?
Wendell & Ivy:
Yes, Father.
Exchange of Consent
Priest:
WENDELL & IVY, since you wish to contract Holy Matrimony, please join your right hands
and express your intention before God and His Church.
IVY, do you take WENDELL here present to be your lawful husband according to the rite of ourHoly Mother, the Church?
Ivy:
Yes, I do.
Priest:
Do you give yourself to him as his wife?
Ivy:
Yes, I do.
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Priest:
WENDELL, do you take IVY here present to be your lawful wife according to the rite of ourHoly Mother, the Church?
Wendell:
Yes, I do.
Priest:
Do you give yourself to her as her husband?
Wendell:
Yes, I do.
Priest:
Now please say together.
Wendell & Ivy:
Grant us, O Lord, to be one heart and one soul from this day forward for better or for worse, forricher or for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
Confirmation of the Marriage Bond
Priest:
And I, by the authority of the Church, calling on all those present here as witnesses, confirm andbless the bond of marriage which you have contracted in the name of the Father, and of the Son
and of the Holy Spirit.
All:
Amen.
Blessing of the Arrhae and Rings
Ring, Coin and Bible bearers will come forward assisted by the Best Man and Matron of Honor
and will stand at the right side of the priest.
Priest:
WENDELL & IVY, we shall now bless your arrhae and ring. Our help is in the need of the Lord.
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Let us pray. Bless, O Lord, your servants WENDELL & IVY with sufficiency of materialpossessions which these arrhae symbolize so that they may use them to attain eternal life through
Christ, Our Lord.
All:
Amen.
Priest:
Bless, O Lord, these rings so that your servants, WENDELL & IVY who will wear them may
live in mutual love and unbroken loyalty through Christ Our Lord.
All:
Amen.
Ring, Coin and Bible bearers will return to their seats. The Best Man will take hold of the rings
and take his place on the groom's side. The Matron of Honor will also take hold of the coins andtake her place on the bride's side.
Giving of the Wedding Rings and the Arrhae
Priest takes the rings from the Best Man and gives it to Wendell and Ivy.
Priest:
Now give this ring to one another and say your vows.
Wendell:
IVY, wear this ring as a sign of my love, and loyalty, in the name of the Father, and of the Son
and of the Holy Spirit.
Ivy:
WENDELL, wear this ring as a sign of my love, and loyalty, in the name of the Father, and ofthe Son and of the Holy Spirit
Priest takes the arrhae, from the Matron of Honor and gives it to Wendell
Wendell:
IVY, I give you this arrahe as a pledge of my dedication to your welfare in the name of theFather, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
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Ivy:
And I accept them.
Priest:
My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, I now present to you our newlywedded couple in our
Christian community. Let us welcome them with a big hand.
Newlyweds turns around to face the people in attendance as they are given a brief applause.
Everyone then stands for the Prayers of the Faithful.
Prayers of The Faithful
Priest:
Dearly beloved, let us now pray for the church and for our newly wedded couple whose marriagereflect their union with Christ. Let our response be: GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR
PRAYERS.
Reader:
For the Holy Church spread over the world, for its leaders and for the rulers of our nation. Let us
pray to the Lord.
All:
GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader:
For the poor and the sick and all those in trial and afflictions. Let us pray to the Lord.
All:
GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader:
For WENDELL & IVY that they may keep their hearts united forever and all married couples.
Let us pray to the Lord.
All:
GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
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Reader:
That He may stir up the grace of the sacrament in all the married couples here present. Let uspray to the Lord.
All:
GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader:
Almighty, Eternal God, look down with favor upon your servants. Grant them to remain faithfulto You and to one another. At the end of a long well spent life, reward then with eternal
happiness together with all those who love them. This we ask through Christ, our Lord.
All:
Amen.
Offertory
Everyone sits down and the persons who will offer the candles, flowers, fruits, bread and winewill now proceed to bring in these gifts to the altar.
While the choir sings, Candle Sponsors will now come forward to light the two candles. The
bride and groom then kneels down for the veiling and cording ritual. Veil Sponsors will thencome forward to drape a white veil over the shoulders of the groom and over the head of the
bride. The Cord Sponsors will then put the cord over the shoulders of the Bride and Groom.Bride and Groom will remain kneeling until after Communion.
Choir:
(to be sung)
I Offer My Life
All that I am, all that I have
I lay them down before you, O Lord;
All my regrets, all my acclaimThe joy and the pain, I'm making them Yours
Chorus:
Lord, I offer my life to You
Everything I've been throughUse it for your glory
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Lord, I offer my days to YouLifting my praise to You
As a pleasing sacrificeLord, I offer You my life.
Things in the past, things yet unseenWishes and dreams that are yet to come trueAll of my hopes, all of my plans
My heart and my hands are lifted to You.
(Repeat Chorus)
Liturgy of the Eucharist
Priest:
Blessed are You, Lord, God of all creation. Through Your goodness we have this bread to offer,which earth has given and human hands have made. It will become for us the bread of life.
All:
Blessed be God forever
Priest:
By the mystery of the water and wine, may we come to share on the divinity of Christ whohumbled himself to share in our humanity.
Blessed are You, Lord of all creation. Through Your goodness we have this wine to offer, fruit ofthe vine and work of our human hands. It will become our spiritual drink
All:
Blessed be God forever!
Priest:
Lord God, we asked You to receive us and be pleased with the sacrifice we offer You with
humble and contrite hearts.
Pray my bothers and sisters that our sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the Almighty Father.
All:
May the Lord accepts this sacrifice from your hands, for the praise and glory of His name, forour good and the good of all His Church.
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Priest:
Lord, hear our prayers and accept the gifts we offer for WENDELL & IVY. Today, You havemade them one in the Sacrament of Marriage. May the mysteries of Christs unselfish love which
we celebrate in this Eucharist help them in their journey through life. We ask this in the name of
Jesus, the Lord.
All:
Amen.
Preface
Priest:
The Lord be with you.
All:
And also with you.
Priest:
Lift up your hearts.
All:
We lift them up to the Lord.
Priest:
Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
All:
It is right to give Him thanks and praise.
Priest:
Father, all powerful and ever living God, we do will always and everywhere give You thanks.
By this Sacrament, your grace unifies man and woman in an unbreakable bond of love andpeace. You have designed the chaste love of husband and wife for the increase of the human
family and of your family born in baptism.
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You are the loving Father of the world of nature. You are the loving Father of the new creationof grace. In Christian marriage You bring together the two orders of creation, natures gift of
children enriches the world and Your grace also enriches the Church
Through Christ, the choir of angels and all the Saints praise and worship Your glory. May our
voices blend with theirs as we join in their unending hymn.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Holy, Holy, Holy
Holy, Holy, Holy Lord.Heaven and earth are filled with your glory,
Hossana in the highest.
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord,Hosssana, Hossana in the highest.
Eucharistic Prayer II
Priest:
Lord, You are Holy indeed, the fountain of all holiness. Let Your Spirit come upon these gifts tomake them holy so that they may become for us the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Before he was given up to death, the death He freely accepted, He took the bread and give You
thanks. He broke the bread, gave it to His disciples and said:
TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU AND EAT IT. THIS IS MY BODY WHICH WILL BE GIVEN
UP FOR YOU.
When supper was ended, he took the cup. Again, He gave You thanks and praise, gave the cup toHis disciples and said:
TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU, AND DRINK FROM IT. THIS IS THE CUP OF MY BLOOD.
THE BLOOD OF THE NEW AND EVERLASTING COVENANT. IT WILL BE SHED FORYOU AND FOR ALL MEN SO THAT SINS MAY BE FORGIVEN. DO THIS IN MEMORY
OF ME.
Let us proclaim the Mystery of Faith.
Choir:
(to be sung)
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Christ has Died
Christ has died,Christ has risen,
Christ will come again.
Allelujah, Allelujah!
Priest:
In memory of His death and resurrection, we offer You, Father, this life-giving bread, this savingcup. We thank You for counting us worthy to stand in Your presence and serve You. May all of
us who share in the Body and Blood of Christ be brought together in unity by the Holy Spirit.
Lord, remember Your Church throughout the world, make us grow in love together withBenedict, our Pope, Ricardo, our bishop and all our clergy. Remember our brothers and sisters
who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising again. Bring them and all the departed into the
light of Your presence.
Have mercy on us all. Make us worthy to share eternal life with Mary, the Virgin Mother of God,
with the Apostles and with all the Saints who have done Your will throughout the ages. May wepraise You in union with them and give You glory through Your Son, Jesus Christ.
Through Him, with Him and in Him, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is YoursAlmighty Father, forever and ever.
Choir:
(to be sung)
The Great Amen
Amen, Amen, Amen!
Communion Rites
Priest:
Let us pray with confidence to the Father in the words our Savior has given us.
Everyone joins hands and sings.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Our Father
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Our Father,Who art in heaven
Holy be thy nameThy Kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
On Earth as it is in HeavenGive us this day our daily bread,And forgive us our tresspasses,
As we forgive those who sinned againts us.And lead us not into temptation.
But deliver us from evil.For thine is the Kingdom,
And the power and the glory,Forever
Amen.
Nuptial Blessing
Priest:
My dear friends, let us ask God for his continued blessing upon WENDELL & IVY:
Holy Father, creator of the universe, maker of man and woman, in your likeness, source ofblessing for married life, we humbly pray to You for this man and woman who today are united
in the sacrament of marriage.
May Your fullest blessing come upon them so that they may together rejoice in Your gifts of
married love and enrich Your Church with their children. Lord, may they both praise You whenthey are happy and turn to You in their sorrows. May they be glad that You help in their workand know that You are with them in their needs. May they pray to You in the community of the
Church and be Your witnesses in the world. May they reach old age in the company of theirfriends and come at last in the kingdom of heaven. We ask this through Christ, Our Lord.
All:
Amen.
Sign of Peace
Priest:
Lord, Jesus Christ You said to your Apostles: I leave you peace, my peace I give you. Look
not in our sins but on the faith of Your Church and grant us peace and unity of Your Kingdomwhere you live forever and ever.
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All:
Amen.
Priest:
The peace of the Lord be with you always.
All:
And also with you.
Priest:
Let us offer each other a sign of peace.
Everyone turns around and say to one another:
All:
Peace be with you
Priest:
May the mingling of the body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ bring eternal life to those whoreceive it.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Lamb of God
Lamb of God, You take awaythe sins of the world
Have mercy on us. (repeat 3x)Grant us peace, O Grant us peace.
Lamb of God.
While the Choir sings, Veil and Cord Sponsors may now come forward to remove the Cord andthe Veil from the bride and groom.
Breaking of the Bread
Priest:
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Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in your love and mercy, I eat your Body and drink your Blood. Letit not bring me condemnation but health in mind and body.
This is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are those who are called to
His supper.
All:
Lord, I am not worthy to receive You but only say the word and I shall be healed.
Everyone kneels down.
Priest:
May the Body and Blood of Christ bring us to everlasting life.
All:
Amen.
Holy Communion
While the Choir sings the communion hymns, the priest gives communion to the newlyweds and
then gives communion to everyone.
Choir:
(to be sung)
Lead Me, Lord
Lead me, Lord, lead me by the handAnd make me face the rising sun
Comfort me through all the pain that life may bringThere's no other hope that I can lean upon
Lead me, Lord. Lead me all my life.
Walk by me, walk by me across the lonely road that I may face
Take my arms and let your hadn show me the wayShow the way to live inside your heartAll my days, all my life.
REFRAIN:
You are my light, You're the lamb upon my feetAll the time, my Lord, I need You there
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You are my light I (just) cannot live aloneLet me stay by Your guiding love
All through my life, lead me, Lord.
Lead me, Lord, even though at times I'd rather go alone my way
Help me take the right direction, take Your roadLead me Lord and never leave my sideAll my days, all my life.
(Repeat Refrain)
Prayer after the Communion
Priest:
Let us pray.
Everyone rise for the final prayer and blessing.
Priest:
Almighty God, may the sacrifice we have offered and the Eucharist we have shared strengthenthe love of WENDELL & IVY and give us all your fatherly aid men.
All:
Amen.
Solemn Blessing
Priest:
May the Lord Jesus who was a guest at the wedding in Cana bless you and your families and
friends.
All:
Amen.
Priest:
May Jesus who loved his Church to the end, always fill your hearts with His love.
All:
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Amen.
Priest:
May he grant that as you believe in His resurrection, so you may wait for Him in joy and hope.
All:
Amen.
Priest:
May the Almighty Father bless you all, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
All:
Amen.
Priest:
The mass has been offered. Go in peace and serve the Lord. Pray.
All:
Thanks be to God.
Final Hymn
Choir:
Signing of Marriage Contract
Newlyweds goes to the altar to join the priest for the signing of the marriage contract. After thenewlyweds have finished signing, Priest passes the marriage contract to the Best Man and the
Matron of Honor who will in turn facilitate with the signing of the Principal Sponsors aswitnesses.
ORDER OF PICTURE TAKING
y NEWLYWEDS WITH PRIESTy THE NEWLYWEDSy NEWLYWEDS WITH BRIDES PARENTSy NEWLYWEDS WITH GROOMS PARENTSy NEWLYWEDS WITH BOTH PARENTSy NEWLYWEDS WITH BOTH PARENTS AND SIBLINGS
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y NEWLYWEDS WITH PRINCIPAL SPONSORSy NEWLYWEDS WITH SECONDARY SPONSORSy NEWLYWEDS WITH MATRON OF HONOR & BEST MANy NEWLYWEDS WITH MATRON OF HONOR, BEST MAN, BRIDESMAIDS,
GROOMSMEN, FLOWER GIRLS, & BEARERSy
NEWLYWEDS WITH BRIDES MAIDS AND GROOMSMENy NEWLYWEDS WITH FLOWER GIRLS AND BEARERSy NEWLYWEDS WITH MASS READERS AND OFFERERSy NEWLYWEDS WITH BRIDES RELATIVESy NEWLYWEDS WITH GROOMS RELATIVESy NEWLYWEDS WITH THEIR FRIENDSy NEWLYWEDS WITH PSALMIST AND READERSy NEWLYWEDS WITH CHOIR MEMBERS
Recessional
This special affair will always be remembered in our whole life not only because it has
consummated our wishes of being one, but most especially because of your presence.
Thank you for sharing this special moment with us!
WENDELL & IVY