ONE THING YOU CAN TO DO TO INCREASE YOUR CHARISMA AND

FIND SUCCESS

“Imperfect, free and happy”

Christophe ANDRE

Thanks to Darwin, we know that our capabilities have been building progressively for ages.

These capabilities are managed by our brain. Our brains have been

built progressively during our history.

Our brain is determined by two major things:

Our genetic heritage resumes the history of our

ancestors.

Our experiences are built through the history of our

life.

Our DNA and our brains have kept

capabilities coming from the beginning of

Human history.

At one point in the Human history, life for

men was not safe. They had to face

numerous, often scary predators.

Just like many others animals, men have

understood that living in bands was safer for them.

Throughout the ages, men have developed skills to

catch and interpret signals from other men.

Our attitudes and behaviors are shaped by our

muscles, and are driven by the

connections in our brain.

Connections in our brain are activated

differently depending on our

feelings.

Our feelings - that we thought were hidden in our head – are actually caught unconsciously

by others.

We have developed these skills to catch danger earlier on.

We had to be good at this

because it was a question of life or death.

So, who should you ask about what you

can bring to the group to survive?

The person that knows the most

about your capabilities is of course, you.

Others trust your own judgment about yourself.

So, if you want to increase your charisma and popularity, the first thing you should do is:

Believe in yourself.

If you don’t have faith in all of your

capabilities…

Others will have no time to find them for you.

Believe in yourself and many doors

will automatically open in your

life.

You don’t need to lie to others to make yourself

look better.

Here are 4 tips to help you understand how marvelous you

really are:

1. You are the success story of all your ancestors.

And it is a good story as your ancestors succeeded to survive the numerous

dangers.

2. The only judge to your actions that

truly matters is YOU.

Because in reality, value

perception is

subjective.

3. Mistakes are welcome as they actually help you to learn faster.

You should be happy to learn something

new…

Rather than ashamed.

4. The elasticity of our brain (capability to create new connections) is a warranty for freedom.

You have to spend an

average of 20 hours on any topic to be

good at it [**] .

[**] See the marvelous intervention of J. KAUFMANN in TED : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MgBikgcWnY

CONCLUSION

Believe in yourself and success will be

yours.

Thank you !!!

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